How do i begin?i am so broken hearted.me and my boy freind been best friends for over 4 years and he was my only best best freind that i share my secrets with.But we start dating about 14 month .things were very good in the begining but later he start abusing me and hit me several times.now i am hurting because i lost my best freind at the same time my boy freind that i really love.I dont want forgot to mention he has a child with other woman.But he really hate a woman and abuse her and kick her out of my huise when she came to look for him in my place.i love him now i cant sleep or eat i lost my appitate i dont know what to do?i am very skinny i lost alot of wait.i cant sleep good at night i take vacation from work for one week i because emotionally sick i cry alot i through up a lot.so tell me what can i do to get over him?i am 29 no childern i live alone i feel so lonly because he was my best freind that i use to tell every thing.now i dont have no body help me.thank you for taking to read my story
Lisa, you need to get away from this man, he is abusing you. OMG.. why would you love someone like this. Don't you think you deserve better than that, and think more of yourself. Go seek help at the battered women's shelter or go to the proper authorities. Your 29 years old your not a kid. He doesn't respect you and that isn't love. He is physically abusing you and if you went to the police he would be in jail for domestic violence. Get a restraining order!
me and my boy freind been best friends for over 4 years and he was my only best best freind that i share my secrets with.But we start dating about 14 month .things were very good in the begining but later he start abusing me and hit me several times.
WAKE UP!
Do you call a man who hits you as best friend??? A friend never hurts friends. You are VERY CONFUSED, because you are lonely & have not eaten & slept enough lately. Run fast from this abuser, and stay away from this monster for the rest of your life. Start a new life without him, make real friends, and eventually meet a nice guy for your future. He is nothing but abuser! Look how he treats other people. He is the LAST PERSON you want to call as frined or lover. PLEASE WAKE UP!
yes-please understand that a person who abuses you is NOT a friend nor a person who loves you.you havent l o s t your best friend-hopefully you can get rid of one of your worst nightmares. Seek help. For your own sake.
I can see your pain as if he was abusive he was also probably controlling and stopped you from fostering other realthonships with others, but you have to stay away from him . at the moment you think you cant go on without him but being 29 you have years and years to go, you need to start looking for new friends or reconnecting with old friends to help get you through this , siblings aswell so that you can prepare yourself to move on and when you do move an find someone new keep your friendships strong as your safety net so you never feel this way again
You should get as far away from this guy as possible. Only a coward hits a woman. You can do WAAAYYYY better! And if you don't mind, post his address on here so I can go rough him up a little bit and teach him some manners
you should get as far away from this guy as possible. Only a coward hits a woman. You can do waaayyyy better! And if you don't mind, post his address on here so i can go rough him up a little bit and teach him some manners
Thank you guys for your advice.But can you tell me where to get a stength to get over him.he is also make me happy when we are together.but some times he hits and he put me down.and also goes to see his child with his ex.But i am afreind if i let him go he will go back to her and she will be very happy that she took him back from me.and he abuse her also i heard him severla times and he hit her too infront of me.i am so broken heart i put my self in so hard situation.I cant stop crying.and his ex tald him she will let him see his child if he go to me.so i dont know if he is with he for his child.he left her when she ws pregnant.but now he love his child.but he hate her.he dont even like to mention her name.if he can only stay with i can take his abuse every now and then.i hate been lonly.I dont have good freinds.but iam a proftional social worker. help me i cant work i cant eat i cant sleep.I am misereble. tell me how to get him back
Find the strength in you never having bruises again. You never having to worry if he is going to hit you for some stupid reason. You never having to deal with being put down. You having a enough respect for yourself to say I can't make myself happy.
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