At 27yrs of age i am still a virgin. I know that sounds bad but i just havent found the right girl yet. But as time goes on i'm getting desperate now to lose it. So i was thinking of paying an escort girl to help me out with this one but dont know if this is a good idea or not. Guys out there, would you like to lose your virginity to an escort girl if you were that desparate enough?

jolienoire

Being a virgin is not a bad thing, and if you are saving yourself, there is nothing wrong with that, male or female, its still a good thing... So you are willing to loose something sacred to a stranger? it wouldn't make you feel any better you just will be an unvirgin still a virgin mentally and emotionally with relationships, therefore although you are fulfilled sexually, emotionally/relationship wise you are still a virgin... I would say wait... Pleasure yourself in the meantime... Don't get desperate...

RickJ

No, it's not at all bad to be a virgin at your age.

What's bad is feeling "desperate" to lose it.


Consider this: Meet the girl woman of your dreams next month and 1) you either tell her the truth that you've had one other sex partner - a whore, or 2) you lie.

Is that how you'd like her to know you?

rockerchick26

He has an excellent point!

You've already waited this long, you might as well wait until you find someone you at least like and care about a LITTLE.

talaniman

Doesn't sound bad at all, but why spend good money on a ho, when your waiting for the right female?? Find the right female, and you wont be desperate, and be glad you waited. A whore loves your money and not you.

ihatewestseneca

Hey man, im 21, a virgin... do you know how attractive that is to girls? Think about it, wouldn't you be more attracted to an untainted woman? its the same for them... it shows that you're not like every other guy, you're not just in it for sex. Please dont pay some whore, you'll feel bad about it immediately after, im sure. save your money for a nice girl and take her to dinner.

P.S. im sure you know this, but dont use "you know, im a virgin..." as an opening line to meet girls... just recently actually i told a girl i was out with that i'm a virgin... she wont leave me alone now. So yeah, be proud that you've hung onto it, it'll make the right girl feel all that more special.

nicki143

Wish i was still a virgin at 27 then i would not have made some of the mistakes i have. You hang on to your virginity till you find the right one not lose it on some one who measns nothing to you wait for the right one

Andrew2913

Whether you go to an escort or not is not the real issue as I see it. It is the "desperate" feeling you have expressed to lose your virginity. It is a once in a lifetime occasion, so why you lose it is important, perhaps more important at this stage than with whom. So when the desperate feeling disappears then and only then look at with whom.

Fr_Chuck

Your memory of the first time is something that will always be with you, and a fast roll with someone that cares nothing about you is not the memory I would want for my special time

rnfowl

My Mother Always Told Me Once You Lose It You Never Ever Get It Back. Be Wise And Choose Who You Are Giving That To.