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Apr 30, 2005, 10:38 PM
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| | | The End of the Assertive Male
What's going on with the world??? Everywhere I turn, men are becoming less and less assertive. I'm not talking about assertive as in arrogant pompous , but assertive as in actually making a decision sans drama. Ordering food, ordeal! Choosing what to do, ordeal! TELLING A WOMAN EXACTLY WHAT'S GOING THROUGH HIS MIND, ORDEAL!!!
Geeezus!!! I grew up with a sensibility of the old-fashioned way of doing things. On a date, I make the reservation, I drive, I pay. Not because I'm superior or sexist or trying to prove anything, but simply because that's how I was raised. She can pay if she likes, but I always offer first.
Are men becoming more like girls, and girls becoming more like men? Perhaps a new epidemic is sweeping America. Don't have a name forr it yet, but it seemss to turn decent men into hesitant, limp spined wimps.
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May 1, 2005, 10:24 AM
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| AMEN! my brother. This is the type of stuff woman want!!!
Men have been programed to thinking that woman want a 'girlfriend'/equal as a boyfriend!!! They MAY tell you they want that - BUT, what woman prefer and what they ACTUALLY want/feel....are TWO WAY different things!!!
Woman don't want a WUSSS. Men have to make decisions!!! Be the leader.
Don't be her 'girlfriend' EVER - don't dicuss her problems until you're married.
For some reawson most men have been programed to be pussys/wussys.
Woman want the strong/silent type. No needy-clingy crap. They want you around when they need you. For some reason guys have been programmed by most mothers to kiss-womans-asses - THEY DON'T want this!!!!
Until a man realize what you said he will have massive amounts of heartache. Be a freaking MAN about things - woman have plenty of girlfriends - she DOESN'T need another girlfriend.
Never put a woman ahead of you - they wil llove you for this. |
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May 1, 2005, 10:36 AM
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| BTW - this is the type of stuff I have been preaching since January. Woman want a guy who has a life.
Too many guys get way too attached to a woman - she shouldn't be that important in the beginning. Seriously.
Being 'nice' is NOT the way to go - you got these guys who think all they can do is be agreeable - stand your ground a say what YOU believe in.
I am sure there will be woman here who will argue with me......but in the end, they know I'm right.
Woman need a man who make them feel safe - someone who could take care of them if need be. | |
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May 1, 2005, 04:47 PM
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| Yes. That's right.
Finally!!!! Widcat 21 agrees with me. The end of the world is tommorow. | |
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May 1, 2005, 06:59 PM
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| That girly man niceness - nice guy - -kisser is what ALWAYS gives guys heartbreak. Woman HATE this. They say they want a 'nice guy'. BUT, what they say they want and actually want are TWO different things.
Woman want a strong, silent, jerk-like tendemcies - , Kind (not nice), emotionally independent. | |
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May 4, 2005, 01:56 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by Wildcat21 For some reawson most men have been programed to be pussys/wussys.
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what a thread! you guys might want to check this out.. http://www.savethemales.ca | |
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May 4, 2005, 06:55 AM
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May 4, 2005, 08:56 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by Wildcat21 |
Man, this site is full of infos! Will be reading it for the next few weeks  My head is already spinning from all the "illogical" stuff! | |
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May 4, 2005, 09:31 AM
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| Learn it - so you understand woman | |
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May 4, 2005, 11:26 AM
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| THIS is what I'm talking about.
Great links. Great reading.
"Men Are Fron Mars, Women Are From Venus" sucks!!!
Dr. Phil? Phhhhhhhfffff. | |
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