my girlfriend has a fantastic sex drive but sometimes a bit overwhelming. She is like a panther waiting to pounce. During sex she has at least 7 orgasms to the point of shaking all over but give her 30 mins and she is back on form for more. HELP!!!!

How can i calm her down.

She drives me wild but the general just cant keep up with the pace, i have also used other methods (toys/hands etc) but she says they are not as good as the real thing.

I worn out. HELP!!!

Wildcat21

This is a problem?

Has to be a joke.

jonjons1girl

Try to get her to see you need some time of real passion at the end of it. Like holding her, caressing her, talking, and such. She should like the idea of this and it should give you a little time to catch up. On the other hand--- Let her know how you feel. That you love it but you need a slower pace between rounds if possible so that you can maximize the potential of great sex for her and yourself.

Wildcat21

I don't see this as a problem. As long he gets off most of the time. Mosyt guys would be happy with one

Hey - if you need some help.....

Kidding.

BigNe

We still do the caressing and holding of each other, sometimes we even fall asleep and i have even told her that i am knackered and she has calmed down from when we first met but if she doesnt calm down anymore it will fall off.

Dont get me wrong, i orgasm everytime because she drives me wild but i am so knackered. I dont want to lose this girl because i love her to pieces but my god i am even staying at work to have a break.

I think the main problem is that she knows how to entice me and even when i try to resist and pretend i am not interested, the old trouser snake rears his head and says otherwise.
All she has to do is kiss me while pulling our bodies in together and just the touch of her gets me going and as soon as she realises this is like - lets go!!!

Oh and Wildcat21 i may be taking you up on the offer!!

Wildcat21

Ok - any time! Ha!

Dude - this isn't a problem at all - don't tell anyone!!!! You're lucky man - you don't have a deadfish.

Dude - this all is a GOOD THING!!!!

Capuchin

I don't agree with you at all Wildcat. It's already beginning to push their relationship apart as he is spending longer at work to stay away from this. It's an obstacle in their relationship, and your male bravado just is not helpful at all.

BigNe, have you talked to her about this?

BlazingCold

BigNe, you have to tell HER about your feelings about the sex issue. She won't know unless you tell her directly. If she does care about you, she will try to make things more comfortable for you.

BigNe

yes i have spoken to her about it many times.

It is not pushing our relationship apart, i just need some tips on other ways to please her.

Like i said she drives me wild and the reason i stay at work longer is to try and focus on not being turned on when i see her - she is so hot!!!!!

Oh sorry forgot to say - could her sex drive be anything to do with her doing porn before she met me?

Capuchin

Apologies, I misunderstood