Dumped by text

I know exactly how you feel as I was dumped by email a long time ago. At the time I was devastated but then you realise you deserve much more than that and if he doesn't realise what a wonderful girl you are, then he is blind. YOu are a sensible girl and mature for your age, you don't want anyone to text you he doesn't want to see you any longer-he has to grow up and see the real world...
I am sure you will get over this-just get out there and have some fun!

He way too young. Guys really aren't ready for anything serious until about age 30.

This IS the day of text, e-mail, etc. - I DON'T recommend EVER communicating anyhting serious by test - he is a coward.

Just for get about him - he needs a lot of growing up.

He was out of order. I'm in agreement with you.

All though dumping you text style is a new thing these days. It's still rude in my book. The fact he couldn't do it face to face should tell you he's not mature enough to face his responsibilities. I'm glad to hear your friends and his friends let him have it for the way he treated you. The way he did it, he didn't really care for you.

Unfortunately it happens that way. You've been togather for a while, thought things were okay and then BAM! He doesn't feel ready for a relationship with you. Calling him and telling him off won't make you feel better, especially if you get his voice mail. Send him a letter and tell him how hurt you are by the way he did it, not to mention the fact, he felt fine when you tlaked about it, he lied to you. Giving youa false sense of security in your relationship. Regardless if he reads it or not, you"ll feel better and that's the main thing right now.

Then give yourself time to recover. Don't let his bad boy ways keep you from developing another relation ship. Thre are good guys out there. And util we find one, we kiss a few toads along the way.

Oh by the way, If he comes sniffing around for booty calls, hit him on the nose with a rolled up newspaper. He'll soon get the messege

He was out of order. And I think you're wise to stay away from him. Frankly I don't see why you have to see him because he is the "mate of your mate's boyfriend." I'd steer clear of him for good, once and for all. I think your mate will understand.

He was wrong. My boyfriend broke up with me by a text a couple of weeks ago. It kind of hurt me because I thought I deserved some type of explanation since we have been going together for almost a year now. That just prove how immature he is and he really don't have any balls to confront you.

Thanks for all of your advice, its helped pick me up. But for some reason I still want to hear from him, like a few texts or if I see him he'll say hi. But I doubt he will. I think its because he was my first boyfriend and the person I lost my virginity to. He lost his to me too, but I feel that maybe I was only used just to show his m8s he can get a girlfriend, but didn't want the commitment of having one. I just feel silly as I put an effort into the relationship, I opened up, and I'm a quite closed off person. I just wonder if he ever really liked me, but how can you fake liking a person for just over 3 months. I just feel used sometimes and I was gullable enough to go along with it.

Good Morning Dani,

If he does it won't be for awhile. I wouldn't expect it though. There is a sudden void and your brain is questioning where that part is. That's why your wondering if he call, text, email, or contact you. The best way to fill it is to stay busy. If you get a thought of him, consciously tell yourself, "I'm moving forward and I'm focusing on this project now."

Your still young, he's still young and to be honest 3 months isn't that long of a time period. I can't say why he did what he did, but I can say that you did everything fine. In the future with other guys you may not want to do it as fast. Perhaps you moved too fast but the reality is it's not worth worrying about.

Your gullable if you don't learn something from this. We are all gullable at times. We all get caught up in situations. It's those who take something from a negative experience and move forward with something new, even in a bad situation, that are NOT gullable.

A man that dumps you by text is a coward and has no self respect for you if he did this .

You are better off without him and better to find someone who would truly love and care for you , for who and what you are .

Good luck in all you do.