i love my boyfriend but i am afraid if he leaves me or gets snatched away from me

Jesushelper76

I think that maybe you should get a restraining order on yourself. To prevent you from seeing him. You need to see a counselor because being so jealous and so obsessed will only hurt you and everybody around you.

The more jealous you become, the more obsessed you become then I would say there is a 100 percent chanch you will push this guy away and for good. Into somebody elses arm. This has nothing to do with him, but with you.

So Counseling if you truly want to figure out what is causing you to feel so jealous. Get to the root of the problem and hopefully learn to deal with life situations differently then you have.

Best of luck.

Joe

tishee_76

Hi showtyruz

I admire your admittance, you are whole lot closer to figuring out a solution if you can recognise a problem..
jesushelper76 gives you a great answer and I would suggest for you to be so wound up about it, the problem could be deeply seeded.. so it may be hard to deal with it yourself..

As for your relationship at present..
You really must treat others the same way you would like to be treated, even when it's hard to do..
I believe with introspection you will figure where your problems stem from and fix them instead of band-aiding the symptom..

You have looked for answers and thats the hardest step sometimes, I do wish you all the strength you need to take the next step, counselling..

talaniman

Glad that you recognise the problem, and getting help to guide you thru the process of dealing with it, is the way to go.

robertsqueen

I too am glad that you reconize the problem and want to get help. I agree that you should see a therapist or counselor and try to get to the root of the problem. It sounds like you feel a little insecure about the relationship and how he feels about you. Before I met my husband I too was insecure in relationships. Maybe you need to take some time away from him to figure out why you need him so much.