I don't know what I should do now ?

cutie08 · #1 Feb 13, 2006, 06:41 AM

alright so me and my boyfriend of a month just broke up and i wasent all that upset but ya and when i was dating him my ex who used to be frineds with him stoped talking to him as soon as he found out that he was dating me and when i went to his school basketball game he was stareing at us the whole time and he always talks to me now and hes been wanting me to hangout with him and his freinds but i havent had the time and now tht me and my bf broke up im really startimg to like him again i dont kno wat is hould do please help me asap i need some advice on wat you think i should do thanks

fredg · Feb 13, 2006, 06:46 AM

Hi,
When you type sentences without using a "period". ending your sentences, it's a little hard to read and understand.
Looks like you need some new friends. Boyfriends come and go, and their friends sometimes get mad for someone dating other friends.
What to do? Play it by ear, just hang in there, be yourself, and talk about what others want to talk about. It will eventually straighten itself out.

lilfyre · Feb 13, 2006, 07:01 AM

It is hard to say maybe your ex-ex-boy friend still kind of liked you, and that is why he would not talk to you and just stared at you and you new boy friend. Now that you are no longer going out with your old boy friend he wants to hang out again, maybe he was jealous maybe he was giving you the space you needed it is hard to say. Why don’t you ask him? Everything works out in the end. You will do fine just take things slow. I hate to sound like a parent, but I am one, so well here we go. You are young and thing sometimes get confusing if you sit and think of what is going on, what you would like to happen and then think if it is really in your best interest, you can come up with what you should do. The major mistake I made when I was younger was doing what my friends thought I should do. You are the only one that knows what is right for you. I hope this was helpful to you. (O:

Jesushelper76 · Feb 13, 2006, 07:20 AM

Why dont you do what you think is best for yourself? We can not tell you what to do, or even advice because we do not know the whole situation. You need to make that decision on your own.

Joe

CaptainForest · Feb 13, 2006, 02:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fredg

Hi,
When you type sentences without using a "period". ending your sentences, it's a little hard to read and understand.

You know you have grown up in the technological age when….

You read that post and did not even realize she didn’t use any periods!

DrJ · Feb 13, 2006, 03:48 PM

I gotta second the whole "period" thing cuz I cant really get the jist of what you are trying to say and all and like i totally would be willing to help but i just dont really understnad what the question is and you just keep on going and going and going and your not really giving us an idea of what you are looking for and I just dont really know how to help but I really dont want you to take this post the wrong way its just that you need to realize how hard it is for us to follow you and stuff so stop for a second and regroup and try to figure out exactly what it is you are having issues with and give us the details that would help us inderstand exactly what you are talking about so that we can give you some good advice cuz our advice is like gold and we really want to help and i really think that we can and I also think that i am taking this too far so i am sorry for that and i hope that you dont take this the wrong way cuz i think you are a great person.