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Old May 15, 2006, 05:59 PM
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dont know what to do...or feel

ok, i been talkin to this girl for a long time like 6-7 months, and she wants to be bf/gf. i dont have a problems with that but i like doin what i;m doin now...we chill, hang out, and we are even having sex, but what is getting me is that she wants to be bf/gf. i told her i rather take it slow try to figure each other out, that fine till she told me that she want to be with me and she doesn't want to lose me. she said she fills dumb cause "she waiting around" and nothing has happend yet. i think is it that you have to get with some one cause your talkin...hell we're doin every thing like a bf/gf, but without the title. she tell me that if i want i can get rid of her without anything cause there no string attach, cause we're not together. also i just told me that she love me, and she did want to but it happen but it did, not being bf/gf. so i guess i'm askin what to do, she said doesn't mind takin it slow, but she doesn't want to feel like an idoit for "waiting" around, and nothing happnes. i can see my self with this girl but not now..i just bout to turn 22 i want to live that type of life style. i mean goin out when eva, not saying "um baby is it cool if i can go with my friend"...no! i rather just get up and go. my friend say want can or cant you do with a gf? think about it, it is alot when u sit down and figure it out. i mean i not goin having sex with all types of girl or anything like that i just dont want to settle down yet, but what should i do bout this??????

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Old May 15, 2006, 06:04 PM   #2  
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It sounds like you aren't ready for any type of relationship right now so you should tell her that honestly and up-front. You can hang out with her if you want but don't be shocked if she decides to click her heels and walk away from you. It sounds like you and her want different things at this point so that wo of you are really not compatible. You're in a position where you could tactfully help her to realize that.
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Be honest about your feelings and stop having sex with her. As long as your taking her to bed she will feel like you are hers. If you don't want a relationship then stop acting like her boyfriend.
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It's a sweet deal for you... You get all the benefits of being "in a relationship" with her, but are completely free of any commitment to her.

I actually feel sorry for her. You're playing her for a fool...

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