Hello so... i know this girl for 8 almost 9 years... we are great friends i think the best friends ... we do all the stuff together .. but i felt in love with her a problem! she has a boyfriend.. and i only think about her i dont know what to do or how to get her out of my head shes i cant sleep at night a cant concentrate nothing

tickle

The problem is, a person has to be pretty well disciplined in order to just cut off emotions that are really unsuitable. Most of us cant do it and really mean it, or then there are others who are just too needy to pull it off, who dont have a really good friendship base in order to dilute the feelings.

IReallyNeedHelp

as everyone said i shall forget here do something else,accept her as a friend i want to but i just cant my feeling for her are just to big and shes stuck in my head

jckgdig

Of course you could ignore the fact that not one person here gave you the advice you wanted (I assume you wanted to hear "go for it!"). If you do choose to ignore the advice, just be prepared for the possibility that you will be back here some time in the future asking how you can go on after losing both a friend and a girlfriend at the same time.