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    lovely_mae Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 17, 2007, 04:49 PM
    Don't know if my best friend is sleeping around with my boyfriend
    I've been going out with my boyfriend since may 07. I'm now pregnant for him. I have a best friend that I think is having some kind of relationship with my boyfriend. I mean she is my friend but I know how she is, she's been around. She has done some messed up stuff to me. Way before me and boyfriend started going out she was like he is sexy and all. Well yesterday it was his birthday and my best friend didn't go to school because the night before she messed around with a dude that she just met and stayed up all night. I text her asking her why she didn't come to school. She did not respond at all. Well today she told me she text my boyfriend yesterday telling him happy b-day, I didn't like it at all but didn't say I acted normal. I asked my boyfriend what time she texted him. He was like 10:30 am. Well what in the world is she doing thinking about my man that early in the morning? I don't know what to do I know if I'm overthinking or what? Please I need a advise.
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    Oct 17, 2007, 06:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lovely_mae
    I've been going out with my boyfriend since may 07. I'm now pregnant for him. I have a best friend that i think is having some kind of relationship with my boyfriend. I mean she is my friend but i know how she is, shes been around. She has done some messed up stuff to me. Way before me and bf started going out she was like he is sexy and all. Well yesterday it was his birthday and my best friend didnt go to school because the night before she messed around with a dude that she just met and stayed up all night. I text her asking her why she didnt come to school. she did not respond at all. Well today she told me she text my bf yesterday telling him happy b-day, i didnt like it at all but didnt say i acted normal. i asked my bf what time she texted him. he was like 10:30 am. well what in the world is she doing thinking about my man that early in the morning? i dont know what to do i know if im overthinking or what? please i need a advise.
    Just ask them both, separately though. One may tell the truth. If not eventually the truth will come out but hopefully sooner then later. You never no maybe nothing has happened and if you don't trust this girl maybe you need to loose her as a friend.
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    Oct 17, 2007, 07:26 PM
    Ohhhhh this happens to my friends all the time! And I've had it happen to me too! My advice is just kind of watch them. If you approach your friend, I'm willing to bet that she will act shocked (if she isn't really) and accuse you of not trusting her, same with your boyfriend. So just watch them, it's a fact as far as I'm concerned that no matter how much two people try to hide it, if they like each other or have done something together, THEY CAN'T HIDE IT! Like little subtle looks or smiles that just say plain as day "I love you" or "I wanna you". So just watch them and if it really does seem that they are acting weird then approach them, cause by then you will probably have solid reasons for your suspisions. But if just one is acting weird then it is a one sided thing, then approach that person and tell them how you feel about the situation. That's just my advice though. I hope things work out with you and your guy, oh and congrats on your baby ^.^
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    Oct 17, 2007, 07:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lovely_mae
    I've been going out with my boyfriend since may 07. I'm now pregnant for him. I have a best friend that i think is having some kind of relationship with my boyfriend. I mean she is my friend but i know how she is, shes been around. She has done some messed up stuff to me. Way before me and bf started going out she was like he is sexy and all. Well yesterday it was his birthday and my best friend didnt go to school because the night before she messed around with a dude that she just met and stayed up all night. I text her asking her why she didnt come to school. she did not respond at all. Well today she told me she text my bf yesterday telling him happy b-day, i didnt like it at all but didnt say i acted normal. i asked my bf what time she texted him. he was like 10:30 am. well what in the world is she doing thinking about my man that early in the morning? i dont know what to do i know if im overthinking or what? please i need a advise.
    I think you should find a new friend... if she is messing with then you need to drop both of them. I know this is not easy to do but if you want to know just ask. All she can do is end the hell you are going though.
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    Sep 13, 2010, 01:07 PM
    Get her back. I'm in that position now.
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    May 3, 2011, 12:13 AM
    I agree with the previous posts. If you want to find out ask and if they act waaaay to defensive it might just be a sign and then watch them when your hanging out together. Pay attention to how he acts around her and if he talks to her a lot when your not there or at work.

    If it is going on I would get him back for it first or both of them before letting them know I knew. I've been cheated on way too many times. I'm a vindictive ***** now. =)
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    May 3, 2011, 03:19 AM

    The post is from 2007.

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