Does she still want to be with me?
Asked Sep 23, 2012, 01:10 PM
I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 7 months. It started great! She was texting me constantly, writing on my Facebook wall, an she always showed an expressed that she loved me an wanted to spend time together an saying how glad she was that she met me.
The last couple of months though she has shown very little interest. Usually when I text her she won't text back for ages or she won't at all, if she does text back she just writes short, blunt texts as if she can never be bothered to talk to me and that she doesn't care about anything I have to say. Whenever I want to see her I always have to go over to her town at her place or her mates place cause she doesn't come to mine and hasn't for months. She said she wanted to start coming to mine again but often shows signs as if she doesn't want to. So I'm unsure.
She pretty much never takes my calls anymore either, and when we're together and with her friends its like I don't even exist. She won't talk to me, sit by me or express herself towards me physically.
However a few weeks ago she wanted a puppy an she convinced me to meet her an get it for us an before I arrived she was texting me and making sure I texted back, when we got there she was standing very close to me holding my hands like she used to. I thought perhaps she would start to warm to me again but since I bought us the puppy it was back to her distancing herself from me. So I don't know if she wants to be with me anymore. But she says she does.
Although a lot of what she used to do has changed so I'm not sure cause she hasn't been completley honest with me staight away every time we talk about some things and she changes her mind about things sometimes to. I just want to know why she has been so distant lately. If there's any chance things can be like they were several months ago, and does anyone have any advice?
Last edited by talaniman; Sep 23, 2012 at 02:42 PM.