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    Does he care about me?

    Asked Mar 31, 2012, 02:05 PM ó 4 Answers
    I have this guy who acts like he owns me, he says I used to be his girl but he sleeps with other girls and when I rock up I just have to put up with it. He says itís just youíre different we donít use condoms. He so jealous over me but donít do anything wrong but I put all my effort into him. We have a son together also, from few years ago. He thinks Iím a yoyo so affectionate like were together but then I get ignored because heís been with someone else.

    Then few days later he will slowly start calling me baby and touch me ask me for cuddles, but Iím starting to get snotty and he says Iím immature. I just feel so hurt and I donít know who or where I stand. He always says he loves me yet right a week after the other girl heís expecting to move in with me. I said no. He flirts with every girl, I feel like one in a hundred. I know he said we were just friends, but I was his girl. He still wants it that way, but I don't feel very special. He said when we are getting engaged and stuff.

    When we talk about the other girls he said I just woke up to myself but I don't know why. I also feel he is an attention seeker; he acts like heís it to everyone, a bit. But when it comes down to sex I feel he chickens out a lot but itís starting to make me feel itís me. Thereís something wrong when he gets few drinks into him or few valium, and then goes with the other girls, like heís some kind of stud.

    Please help I feel so stupid and donít want him hurting me anymore. Itís just so hard because he says look me in the eye and tell me you don't love me anymore, but I canít. I still care for him, but I want to know how I can just be his friend, and not get constantly hurt.

    Thanks for listening :)

    Last edited by talaniman; Mar 31, 2012 at 04:31 PM.
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    Mar 31, 2012, 04:33 PM


    Confine your contact to being about the kids needs and child support, and you won't feel used. You are being entirely to friendly, and he uses it, and you!
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    Mar 31, 2012, 06:30 PM
    Thank-you very much for your ansew it was helpful I just wanted to say this way I'm there when he hasmy son what if he took of with him or did something stupid if I don't go around he misses me and gets ty I don't want him ty because he might take me to court to get access on his own idont like the idea of that , and its so hard when uhave this love for someone and you cant get rid of it thanks again

    I forgot to mension he constantly says he loves me and the other is just sex he was trying to go out with me as girlfriend but I wasn't ready and pushed away a little but if he really loved me he would have waited for me to commit I'm sorry isound like an idiot.

    why does he talk about every womans boobs if he knows it hurts me

    On TV , or on the bus he will purposly say how nice the woman's boobs are but its not every now and then its all the time it makes you feel worthless why is he doing this
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    Mar 31, 2012, 06:50 PM


    He is a low life jerk that does not have consideration of others.
    So stop going any place with him.
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    Mar 31, 2012, 11:31 PM


    You already know he is a rude no caring jerk so why are you surprised that he keeps proving it?
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