Does ex still have feelings for me?

ken007nielsen · Feb 5, 2011, 09:58 AM

So let me get this straight, you tell your ex, that you have feelings for him - your considering spending time with him, but you won't cheat on your husband? This to me sounds exactly how cheating starts.
Tho it looks to me that he's a big charmer, and may consider you his booty-call.

Perhaps he's bored, or maybe he still loves you. Only he can really say if he is or isent..

irulan26 · Feb 5, 2011, 10:04 AM

No I am not considering spending time with him at all whatsoever. I know that is out of the question

acciosnivellus · Feb 5, 2011, 10:41 AM

This looks like a path to disaster. Like the above poster said, he is a charmer. He'll get to you, you'll find yourself thinking about him more and more and what could have been with him and less about your husband. The last thing you'd want is for this to go so far as to ruin marriages with innocent kids involved.

If you love your husband and would never cheat, what is the point in telling your ex you still have feelings for him? And asking him if he misses you? What exactly do you want to happen with this situation? The only thing I can see coming out of this situation is just that- cheating!

He probably keeps contacting you because it's obvious that you're interested in him still. I'm sure he still has some lingering feelings for you and he probably wouldn't mind a hook up here and there. I would agree that you should not tell him about problems with you and your husband. He WILL tell you what you want to hear, which will complicate your feelings even more. Some occasional casual small talk just to catch up with each other is one thing, but this is borderline innapropriate, especially since you are both married with children!

Just my opinion, but I'd stay clear of this situation and stop talking to him!

vanheart · Feb 5, 2011, 04:36 PM

Don't respond anymore. That way you won't "catch" anything. Nip this in the bud.

You are treading on a dangerous path.
You are both married with kids.

Exs are exs. Nuff said.

Look forward not in the past.

talaniman · Feb 5, 2011, 09:29 PM

You are doing nothing but stirring up old feelings in yourself, that can only distract you from reality, and wondering about fantasy. Doesn't matter what he feels about you. You are married with two kids, HEL-LO!

vanheart · Feb 5, 2011, 10:45 PM

I fantasize all the time. But never forget what's real.

Does your fantasy include ruining 2 relationships?

Ask your husband what he thinks of your post. Your conversation w/him. Include the smiley faces.
How you are in touch & flirting with your ex.

What was the question again?

Does ex still have feelings for me?

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