now this is how my story goes i,ve known this guy for a year now and we,ve been friends,very close friends ever since but last november we started getin real close i thot it waz 4 gud maybe we culd date but it never happened we talk till d early hrs of the mornin and go to d same college still i thot things wil change but it didnt,then we started makin out a lil bit and he cuddles me i really loved it at least we made out once a month. god i really started lovin him altthough i loved him before then but now i found out i wanna move on & i cant b'coz i just keep thinkin about him. oh about his g.f he once had one but she broke his heart,his over dat anywayz. smtimes when we make out its like we,re suppose to be 2gether and he knows it too should i ask him out or what coz i like him too much,there waz a time i told him dat if we contd dat i'l start havin feelings but he said we have too much to think of like our science class,now this gat me confused and i feel like he's usin me, but guyyyyyys i like him too much smtimes i try to move on but i cant, he also says "i'll call back most times he doesn't immediately" is he using me, i,m i crazy, help me i wanna move on. the funniest thing is when i have a date and he knows about it he starts behavin coldly.s'meone help me, i'm going crazy, i really like him and i know he likes me too,what should i do.

ahuvakapon

dear frezzy03,
no, i dont think you're crazy, though you might turn up to believe you are IF YOU STAY WITH THIS GUY!
you're going to be miserable with him-hes manipulating you, does'nt care too much about you - if at all!- and he's turning cold when he chooses so that he'll be sure you'll be back chasing him.
no woman is going to be happy with this kind of guy.
for your own best interest and for your wellbeing, cut your losses now, before its too late.
remember:love can be addictive, and when its addictive, you lose control of your own life, and actually, its not love any more.
my best wishes for you, and i keep my fingers crossed for you,
ahuva

NeedKarma

You're not crazy, just young ... and punctuation challenged.

fredg

Hi, frezzy,
I have asked that your question be moved to Relationships category. This category is just to introducing yourselft, but with no questions. No problem though.
You are in college? You have a lifetime chance now to meet new people, make new friends, and learn a lot about life.
Sticking with this man is a mistake. Love does hurt, when it doesn't go our way. But, this relationship is really over, and it's time to move on.
It will take you some time, but talking with other men is the best way. Talk with them about themselves, and you will have other friends in no time.
I do wish you the best, and good luck.

s_cianci

Tell him honestly and upfront how you feel and see how he responds. I can't guarantee that he'll react the way you want him to but you say you want to "move on". The only way you're going to be able to do that is to know for sure whether or not a future with him is an option. The sooner you find out, one way or the other, the sooner you'll be able to move on.

suminjavi

I think he is using you. Even if you did ask him upfront like 's cianci' said, he might just tell you what you want to hear just to keep you around.
If he really cares about you and is serious about being with you, he would have let you know by now.
Remember there's a lot more fish in the sea willing to treat you better than that.
good luck frezzy