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Old Jan 9, 2006, 03:59 AM
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Do you think he meant it???
On New Years Eve - I was Djing until 12am. My boyfriend came down with his friends until 11pm and then went on somewhere else afterwards.

He told me he would be back before 12 regardless of his friends as he wanted to see the New year in with me - and that he did bless him. We went to meet his friends and went on to a house party afterwards.

We got in to a conversation about something and his response was "I really do Love you though" - I thought I was dreaming so I replied "what was that" - then he replied "Nothing".

What do you think that means?

Maybe I should have relpied better?!

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Old Jan 9, 2006, 04:08 AM   #2  
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When he looks you in the eye - and is sure he has your full attention - and then says it, that's when he really means it.

...just my 1.5 cents worth

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nymphetamine agrees: when he means it he will make sure you understand and hear him
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Old Jan 9, 2006, 04:09 AM   #3  
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Rick is right.
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Old Jan 9, 2006, 04:10 AM   #4  
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as a man I can tell you we often say good things the wrong way, our good intentions of how we say things are most often taken wrong. Men live with a case of foot in mouth most of the time.

While only he knows what he really meant or means, it may with the little info given here should like he was feeling alittle guilty not spending the entire night where you were at. ( which is what I think he should have done, since he did not need to be "running with the boys" )
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I only ask - because he looks at me sometimes like he is about to say it to me but then doesn't.

I want to tell him how much I love him all the time - but I can never quite get the words out.
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Hi,
After my first marriage ended in divorce after 7 yrs, I eventually started dating again. Met this wonderful lady, and it took me a year before I could actually tell her "I love you".
Took another year for us to get married.
If he really loves you, he will eventually tell you. And, you won't have any doubts when he does!
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I always say to my partner "I love you",and she says the same to me.Yes we look each other in the eye.If she looked at the floor,and I was looking at the ceiling,the relationship would be in trouble.Dont worry DJ,I'm sure he loves you,as you do him.Give it time.
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Next time grab him by his ear and smack him in the back of his head and tell him"out with it!"
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Just kidding,IT seems he says I love you with actions and maybe he"s the shy type so give the guy a chance to swollow and get his courage up and do things in his own time! You can use the ear trick anytime so be patient!
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I am patient - just happy to with him. I just wondered whether his slip of the tounge meant anything thats all. But thank you all so much for your help.
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