I dunno I trust my boyfriend very much but i was looking for his phone the other day an i pulled out his work phone. an checked the text messages an there was one from today an it said my boyfriends name ??? then another text sent a little after that said ??? these were from a girl i guess cause it said Kelly jane an some that were sent out but didnt have the date so i couldnt tell if they were from him cause its a work phone different people use it everyday. He just took it home by accident. anyways i said whos kelly jane he was like a friend from high school an im like well why is she texting you? hes like what are you talking about an i showed him. hes like i dunno other people use this phone you know. an im like why would it say your name then? hes like i dunno? then deleted everyhting an im like why did u do that he said cause your not suppose to send text messages so he dosent want his boss to see them even though there not his. i said well you better figure out why that girl is texting you cause she obviously knows who you are where you were an your cells an he said ok . i mean i dont think hed lie to me he never has. An like he knew this really pissed me off an he kept saying how he didnt know what these text messages were an how he loved me an that he would try to find out the next day at work. I mean i dunno it just weird like why would it say his name? an i dont think he is cheating on me but he said he never talked to the girl an if he was talking to her as a friend do you think he would hide that cause i said i wouldnt care just to tell me the truth you know.

chuff

Can I ask you an question. And I don't want you to respond right away. I want you to read it and then think about. Maybe even write it down then right an answer. But here it is and I want you to be honest with yourself....
"What about your boyfriend is causing you to stay with him?"

I mean you have all that drama with his ex. He's got a child that is being emotionally abused. That same child who once he get older is not going to listen to anybody and disrespect everybody. Now this comes along and it's obvious he's hiding something. I'm not sure to what extent but he's obviously lying.

I just don't see the value of this relationship. And don't tell me it's because you love him. I love food but I'm not going to eat a steak that's being sitting in sh!t for a week. You're questioning him, your questioning his ex, you know the kid isn't going to grow up in a healthy situation and yet you stay. Why? Are these all questions your asking because you really want out and your kind of dancing around the issue? I hope so to be honest. You've got a lot more going for than this situation is giving you. Honestly, if you got out of this situation, in years from now, hell maybe months from now you'd look back and say that was one of the smartest decisions you've ever made.

summer123

he is definately hiding something, it is very suss, threaten to break up with him, and see his reaction if he does not care then there is something to worry about.

kitty xxx

Skell

He is lying to you. I think there is a fair chance he is cheating, or at least is considering it.

But never the less he is clearly lying to you and you seem unable to accpet that this is the case.

How does it make you feel to know he is lying to you about this?

I agree with Chuff's post above.
Had to spread it sorry Chuff!

talaniman

Helloooooooooo, I think he would lie to keep you off his trail.
After reading you're other posts I have to agree with chuff and wonder why do you keep going thru this. You may be in love but its not healthy.

He_comes_with_baggage

i did an he says that he will go to work tommarow an get me the number. I dunno

Skell

Get you what number?

He_comes_with_baggage

the phone number to kelly jane he keeps saying that these work phones are old maybe it was another work phone that texted him an maybe at one point that other phone was a secretaries there or sumthing i said well to prove that to me you will have to bring me in this supposed other work phone an text the work pfone you have now an see if i it comes up as kelly jane

Skell

But he admitted to knowing Kelly Jane from school. How can it be someone from work>

So he is saying that someone from his work is texting or receiving texts from a person he went to school with?

That doesnt make sense to me. Im confused actually!

But what im not confused about is that he is lying!!! Again!

He_comes_with_baggage

ok so he called me back an was like i figured out what happen. im like hat. he said my friend frank was at a party an was talking to her an she reconized my name an said she new me an just wanted to say hi.i guess. an i said that bull who would go to a party at eleven in the morning? cause that the time the text from her was sent. an ten im like an why would your friend give her your work number. an he said i dunno maybe it was a party the night before an she texted me the next day? an i said well you said it yourself you take different work phones each day so how would she know you had that one that day? an he goes i dunno. i said well if she just wanted to say hi to you she woulda said "hi troy this is kelly anne from highschool remember me? not troy?? an he said i dunno why she did that but look you asked me to fined out an i did ok i love you an you know that. I no i asked you to get me the phone number. an he said well i dunno franks nt ere right now