alright well here it goes.
Broke up with my girlfriend of almost a year 2 a little more then weeks ago. She said i didn't show enough emotion towards here like bring her out with my friends and public affection but she was alright with it for 10 months and she knew that wasn't my style. 1st weekend of the breakup she came out with me and my friends but i can't show any affection in public if were not together. We said i love you every day as expected, hung out everyday almost. Was always happy to see me. I go on a weekend trip with my buddies and i call her while im there and it's all fine. come back i ask "are you completely happy with me?" "yes i love you" then we talk about how excited we are for our 1 year and the next day she breaks up with me. shes 19 i'm 22, probably a little immature.
She breaks up and because she says i dont show enough emotion so i show her some and we each shed some tears. i chased her for about 6 days because i thought she wanted to know how important she was to me. then gave her 5 days of silence. my friend talked to her without me knowing and she said all this stuff like she was so happy in the relationship and how much fun it was to be with me. he told her s gonna change and she said she would give me another chance. but she talks to me and she says like i dont want to see you anymore, move on. spits a whole different story to me.
i dont want to be a huge to her to try and get her back and possibly lose a friendship with her, but i feel i have to do something.
i acted like a wuss because i thought thats what she wanted so how do i let her know im not a wuss and to get the attraction back. that is in a short period of time if possible.
she's also gone back to partying a lot(like 3 or 4 times a week) and hanging out with old friends that used to get her in trouble.
how do i get her back?

chuff

It sounds like the person you fell in love with is not the same person you dream you ex girlfriend to be. The only thing you could possibly do is get out of her life and see if she contacts you.

star3114

She seems like she is just not ready for a long-term committed relationship, which is very common of girls that age. The age of 18-25 is very important in figuring out what type of person you want to be with long term. With each relationship, you will learn more about yourself and others. You will learn what you need and expect in a relationship. This information will help you determine when you have found "the one". I know it is hard right now, but it is really for the best. Use this time as an opportunity to reflect on the relationship and figure out what you need from a relationship, that perhaps was lacking in the one you had. Use this information when you are ready to get another girlfriend. Break ups are hard, but they all happen for a reason. This girl is just not for you. You had two completely different ways of showing love. Read this book. It is called the 7 languages of love. It can really provide some insight to the current situation and help you when you are ready to have another girlfriend. I wish I would have read the book when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of heartache. Good luck!