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my bf wants to have sex with me but i always says no to him...he said that he cant feel my love for him because i dont want to do it...do we really have to do it??? my friends told me that it was a necessity because it can help us spice up our relationship... i really dont agree about that...we dont really have to do that right????is there any other way to spice up our relationship wihtout having sex???
You shouldn't have sex with anybody until YOU are ready to , he sounds like he is trying to push you. Someone who loves you wouldn't try to push you to do something you don't want to do.
And if you do have sex , there's a chance you will become a Mom before your ready to.
he said that he cant feel my love for him because i dont want to do it...
Oldest game in the book, and what young guys say to get what they want. No you don't have to do it with him, and never should, as he only wants one thing, and your friends are stupid. He doesn't care if your ready or not, and he should, if he really liked who you are. He is not respecting you at all.
Please do not ever have sex with anyone until it both your idea and his/hers. It does not help anything. I am speaking from expierence. Please trust the advise of others on this.
Certainly I agree that you are getting one of the oldest lines of all. If he can't feel your love, why on earth would you want to let him feel any of your private parts? Tell him to quit trying to manipulate you, and that he can go manipulate himself if he doesn't!
He should respect your feelings, and not be saying the only way you can show him you love him is to have sex. The two are not the same at all.
As for spicing things up, any new experience can do that, along with new communication... try different activities than previous. Variety is the spice of life!
Sex is a big big new experience, but not the only thing that can make your time together more interesting. If sex is the only spice he is interested in, you are the one who needs to be concerned about playing with fire and that spice as it can lead to having a bun in the oven. Of course that is only one of many reasons not to buy into his line of b.s.
If he doesn't stick around, you'll know that he isn't interested in the all of the sugar and spice and everything nice that you want your relationship to be made up of...
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