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Home > Family & People > Relationships   »   Do I really need to be in this relationship? sometimes I don't think so.

 
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Old Apr 15, 2007, 06:32 AM
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Do I really need to be in this relationship? sometimes I don't think so.



This is my story r u ready? Well here we go..... my boyfriend and i met over myspace...and 2 months of dating we moved in together... for the first 8 months he lied to me and told me he was a virgin and I had to find the truth on a video tape.....well i got to looking at his computer that night and I found soo many pictures of 15 or 16 year old gurls who had emailed him naked pictures and some ones with clothes on so u could seee their clevage. welll then i got his cell phone and found more pictures taken by him and some sent.....a week after confronting him with the emails and stuff on his phone...also myspace messages where he was telling a gurl he could use another g/f and blahblah blah..... all he had to say was i didn't telll them i love them!!!!! I packed up and left told him that i dout he would ever see me....well i got really drunk that night and ended up back in my exs bed!!!WOW!!! when i woke up the next morning I was like OMG!!! well my ex told me that i was telling him i love him and blahblah blah... well me and him sat and talked and i told him i had some more stuff to get from d's house and i would see him later....well i started throwing up with my hang over while on my way to that house... I walked in the door started packing my stuff and he talked me into staying he promised that he would stop all the internet b/s and all But now 1 year later i find more emails more calls more pictures every day.......... he throws what happend that night in my face.... and at our home... he is always online and when i am at work he is on aim when he is off.... when i get home no matter how late I am cooking cleaning and doing all the house work he helps with nothing... I am not allowed to be friends with any of my old friends... no drinking no cussing no smoking no going out unless he wants to.... no myspace. i pay half of all bills plus 100 dollars rent a month and half of his gas .....and half of a cellphone bills which he is the only one who has the number and on top of that he left my voice mail message.... i don't even have my number!!! and we have a family share plan... I am scared that i am going to loose another job b/c he calls me all day... and he turns everything around and conplains about EVERTHING i do i didn't cook garlic bread where is his drink this is too hot this needs more salt this isn't right......BLAHBLAH BLAH!!!! I AM GETTING FED UP!!! he even controls what and when i eat!!!!!! Can some one help me get through this is it fixable or should i move on? HELP!!

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Old Apr 15, 2007, 07:00 AM   #2  
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wow it does sound like a situation you have got here...

My suggestion is to get out now. What it sounds like is that he is pretty dependent on you financially, but at the same time he puts you down for everything you don't do. You made a mistake, but he can't punish you forever for that. You can't change the past. It also sounds like he's trying to controlling every move you make. This is NOT a healthy relationship and my advie is to get out as soon as you can.
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Old Apr 15, 2007, 07:20 AM   #3  
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Get out girl, nobody deserves to be treated that way !!
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Old Apr 15, 2007, 07:36 AM   #4  
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so is it really as bad as it seems? b/c once it is over it is over......... no turning back
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Old Apr 21, 2008, 05:49 AM   #5  
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i agree with stephan04!
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Old Apr 21, 2008, 06:25 AM   #6  
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well i got to looking at his computer that night and I found soo many pictures of 15 or 16 year old gurls who had emailed him naked pictures and some ones with clothes on so u could seee their clevage

Can you say felon?
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Old Apr 22, 2008, 12:37 AM   #7  
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i wonder why you could accept to be treated like this? Stand up and go NOW, oh before going, give him a nice punch!!!
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