Im a girl in college, and I haven't been a relationship for a really long time. Ive been on a few dates, but I think that there's something turns the guys off. Ive always been told that I'm a really beautiful girl and that I have a great personality, just that I'm kind of on the big side. My mom calls it statuesque... I call it fat.. and people tell me I'm just a bit chubby Could my weight be getting in the way of me finding a nice guy? Are there really men who find big women attractive, or are they just saying that so that we don't feel bad?