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Old Dec 24, 2006, 03:45 PM
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Do I just listen.
what do u say 2 a marriedman who u have been seeing and now havewalked away from when his wife still accuseing him of still being unfaith (she had her guesses ) he knows you have walked away but still wants to talk to you about it saying may he is prolonging it. I just have listened and said he is theonly one who can sort it out.

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Old Dec 24, 2006, 03:55 PM   #2  
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No offence, but what are you doing involved with a married man?

HE IS A LIAR, CHEATER, USER!

I am referring to the guy you are seeing..

He has no intentions to give you what you want!!!!

He will continue to exploit you!!!

Will you let him?

Only you can make that decision.
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Old Dec 24, 2006, 03:58 PM   #3  
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You say nothing to him and never speak to him. What kind of problems he created in his marriage by cheating are his fault. You move on and never get involved with a married man again because the truth is they will never leave the wife for you.
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Old Dec 24, 2006, 04:00 PM   #4  
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you don't listen to his problem, his problem is his, by talking with you he is still trying to get back with you plain and simple.

Breaking ties, if just that, no contact
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You say nothing to him and never speak to him. What kind of problems he created in his marriage by cheating are his fault. You move on and never get involved with a married man again because the truth is they will never leave the wife for you.

Right on chuff..

Sorry had to spread it...

Forget this loser of a guy...
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Old Dec 24, 2006, 05:53 PM   #6  
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You've said what needs to be said. Say no more and have no more to do with this man. Married men are off-limits, plain and simple. You don't need to listen anymore.
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Old Dec 25, 2006, 09:01 PM   #7  
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Tell him to se what his wife has to say and then cut off all contact with this lying cheater.
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Old Dec 25, 2006, 10:07 PM   #8  
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How do u deal with a married man who u walked away from sends you a email saying happy christmas andhe knows ur not going to be as you not like that rude to him by not replying.
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Old Dec 25, 2006, 11:47 PM   #9  
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Ladyred1.

How do you deal with him? You don't. And no, it is not rude to not reply. Not at all.
Please, do this for yourself and if you are unable to do it for yourself. PLEASE PLEASE do this for his wife.

Just picture his wife heart broken, crying her heart out. Hopefully, that will give you what you need to turn and walk away.

Again, answer to your question...you don't ...you do not deal with him and NO it is not rude to not reply.
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Old Dec 26, 2006, 02:30 AM   #10  
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ladyred, it sounds to me as if he won't take no for an answer from you and wants to continue to cheat. He wants his cake and eat it too! I wouldn't answer him. Just think! It's her problem, not yours! You are free of his deceit! Move on, he isn't worth your energy.

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Allheart agrees: agree. great way to put it..."You are free from his deciet" Excellent point.
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