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Do I contact her ?
Asked Jun 10, 2008, 01:48 AM
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106 Answers Ok its been a month and a bit since me and my ex split. She dumped me by text and never let me have my chance to say anything to her. Lately I've doing a lot of work on my own and so have had lenty of time to think of things that I wanted to say. Now that its been so long and I still feel so bottled up, should i/cud I send her an email saying everything I wanted to say starting with 'firstly this sint trying to win you back, its just the things I never had the chance to say to you...' what do you think? |
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| But I just feel so trapped with all the things I never said | ||||
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| Keep no contact if she wants to hear it she will contact you My advice write it down in a letter your never going to send it will help you get a lot of the things off your chest | ||||
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| Yea I'm going to do that today. I'm going to write the whole thing put it away and know that 2morow I will be gla di didn't send it. | ||||
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One day you will be fine to send her a letter, and then you can do it. However, I can guarantee the letter will read much differently then.... | ||||
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| I agree with everyone, stick with no contact you will come back the next day and feel better than you didn't send it | ||||
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| I'd have to go with everybody else too...stick to NC and the letter is a good idea..its a way of saying what you feel without actually talking to her...be careful & don't send it! | ||||
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| Hey I agree with everyone here too NO CONTACT its been as hard as hell for me to do the same thing and you get your moments and you get your days I find certyain things will remind me of her then I think .....maybe I will just to get closure... You know something my friend closure is b/s Its a word you use to have contact again... Why she did this to you in such a manner is horrible and not right.... But SHE dod it and she needs to live with it... Does it get better? Of course it does but its not an overnight thing I cried 4 times yesterday and I'm a grown man...I just blubbered.. Then coming in to work today that light shone on me again ....the one from the end of the tunnel and you know something .... Its getting brighter by the day... Its a way off but it is getting brighter Talking to her will make things much much worse hang in there a little longer you have many here who will help Its funny we forget so many other magnificent things in our lives while we concentrate on them... Just remember this.... For every minute you sit round worrying about her and thinking what she is doing you lose on your own life..... Take a look round today my friend and embrace 'other things' I'm trying I'm like you its not easy but by god it DOES WORK! | ||||
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