Hi

I am divorced , because I love my boyfriend very much, my marriage broke as I say no to my husband for sex, as I was already involved with my boyfriend, when I filed for divorced with consultation with him, Boyfriend ditched me, by giving some cast reason, which his father not approve.
Now Also I'm not out of him, fighting both sided, from divorce and this break up
not able to take that he ditched me.
I am in very bad situation.
please advice what to do.

shygrneyzs

First of all, your boyfriend did not cause the divorce. Your affair with him lead to the divorce and you could have said no to the affair. Your boyfriend was there for the fun but he did not stick around after the divorce. He most likely felt threatened after the divorce - because you were no longer safe to have a sexual relationship with. Now you left, as millions of women and men are left after a messy divorce involving an affiar, ALL by yourself. You will need to learn to stand on your own two feet. Which you will do and can only do, one day at a time.

There have many posts on the Help Desk about breaking up, what to expect after a relationship fails and you can browse through them all. I will give you two such links, filled with wonderful and helpful information. I hope you read through all the comments in those posts and can learn how to draw out your positive and healthy nature and quit feeling sorry for what your life is right now. Because you hold the ability to make your life better. Hope you take advantage of your single time now and learn how to take care of yourself. Improve your self image, your self esteem, etc.

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...ed-123862.html
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...kup-78597.html

statictable

YIKES!!!! I bet this happens at least twice a week. Men!!!!! yep men or some men find a married woman very, very alluring and for very simple reasons; testosterone and danger. You didn't know that? Sorry the guy's a skunkster, a bottom feeder, a pain in societies but others like him will survive because not all women know about testosterone mixed with some danger can equal huge levels of endorphins.

talaniman

You cheated, and lost them both, hmmm! You need a life that is not built around men, and I hope you have learned from this mistake, and not repeat it. Sorry for your losses.