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Old Mar 12, 2008, 09:03 AM
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didn't on his chatting list.why?
he had deleted my name from msn chatting lists of his....but he didn't block me from talking to me...
When I accidentally found out and confront with him , he said he deleted me last year July...because my computer problem then. But he didn't put my name back and keep talking to me up to now....

Why is that? if he did'nt want to talk to me he could just block me totally....I didn't aware of it just because he's still enjoy talking to me....is he really for sake of sex wanting to keep in touch with me?

help me ...thanks

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Old Mar 12, 2008, 09:36 AM   #2  
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he is only using you.....forget about him!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Old Mar 12, 2008, 10:07 AM   #3  
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It's really hurting me.........and disgusting thought that he's just using me for sake of sex.....I thought there must be a connection between he and I interms of feelings....

my head is spinning....my heart is hurt.....why I can't just walk away from him right away....
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bcoz u have feelings for him and u really like him. . .it will be hard but u will be the stronger one to walk away. . .he has used u and ignored u afterwards as if nothing went on

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uhm...

you are having sex with someone and the biggest problem is his msn chat list????

i really dont think a chat list is a reason to have, or not have, sex with someone.

can you please explain more about the relationship? issues? problems? that have nothing to do with msn...

im so not trying to be a pr!ck here... i just dont think that relationships fail or succeed alone from msn chat lists.

so whats going on? how long together or not? whats the deal?

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I agree KP, we need ALOT more information on this issue.
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please read other questions I have on this site yesterday....same person , I have only focused on him ....help me please....
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I read your posts, but don't understand what is going on really.

This is what I get...

Your boyfriend doesn't have you on his "chat list" but he has other girls on there that you call his "girlfriends".

Are they just friends of his that happen to be women, or is he cheating on you with 8 other women?

If they are just friends, I don't see why you are so insecure about that (unless he has cheated).

As far as you not being on his "chat list" big deal, it sounds to me like you guys have bigger issues at hand.

You can't nag, complain, and keep someone from talking to anyone from the opposite sex but you....it will make them run! I would say if he hasn't cheated, and isn't cheating, grow up and let it go.

You have to learn to pick your fights a little better, these types of things get on guys nerves (and girls) and nobody wants an insecure naggy girlfriend / boyfriend.

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I guess so...he said I have no social skills thus he would not want to introduce me to his friends or his daughter...

what should I do? for over a year I have tried my best...and he satys for sake of sex because once in a month or couple of months?

Is there really no connection between us besides sex with me?
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going out with friends for dinner, movie or walk is considering "cheating"??
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