my ex boyfriend has recently started texting me since he has found out i am no longer a virgin and he is. we both are currently dating other people yet he continues to text me. some of the things he says is hinting towards that he wants to have sex. i have to admit the more we keep talking the more feelings im having for him again but there is my current boyfriend and his girlfriend... i dont know what to do...help?

JBeaucaire

You two both sound like perfectly lovely individuals. <dead pan>

You apparently once both valued virginity, now that you've both gotten other boy/girlfriends you've lost your virginity, and HE has gotten it into his head that maybe you can help him with his little problem, too? Oh, and surprise, surprise, you're considering it.

Just lovely.

Dating is supposed to be about learning about other people and practising becoming someone deserving of a faithful-trusting companion. Sound like you're doing just the opposite, you've had sex and now are getting eager to spread it around. And you're GF/BF and faithfulness be damned.

It's sad, it really is. Sounds like this gem of an ex-BF is just the thing for your new sleep-around hobby. Go for it. I'm sure the baby will love having you two for parents.