My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over two years. Things have been okay, however, I've noticed that whenever things are mentioned like getting an apartment or house or etc, he says things like having a bachelor pad. Before we discussed getting a place together but now its throwing me off with the inferences towards getting a place by himself. Even as far as future goes, he never says "us" its always "I." For example, when I get older me and my wife will get blah blah blah, its never like making plans for the future... Am I overthinking?\

I basically want to hear just some of his plans to include me, marriage is not anything I want for a couple of years but I would just think we would be able to include me just a tad in his plans... I don't know, maybe am I asking to hear too much to early and should have more patience or is clear to see that I'm just a phase and not what he wants in his future. Any advice? I hope I explained this well enough...