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Old Jan 15, 2009, 12:03 PM
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Dating someone who is not documented ( illigal in the US)

Would you date someone who is not documented in the US ( illigal)? He came in to this country 10 years ago to try to make a better life. I have been dating someone who is in this situation and he is very limited in everything. He can only work the jobs that no one else will do ( and gets paid very little) he can not get a drivers liceance or ID card. Would you see a future with someone in this situation?

 
     

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Well one can not control and stop who we love. And it is not always for our benifit,

But they will have to try and work on becomming a citizen
 
 
     
 
 
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No one is lying. If you read what I wrote earlier you will see that I wrote "he can't because he is illigal" Believe me I am aware of the immigration laws. In Mexico its very hard to get a visa ( you need lots of money ) and thats why many choose to come to this county the way they do. Regardless, my question was on dating not immigration laws but thanks for the information.


I have asked one of the Immigration experts from the legal board to take a look at this thread and give a definitive, legal answer to the Immigration question - obviously not the relationship question.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jan 18, 2009, 12:34 PM   #13  
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Would you date someone who is not documented in the US ( illigal)? He came in to this country 10 years ago to try to make a better life. I have been dating someone who is in this situation and he is very limited in everything. He can only work the jobs that no one else will do ( and gets paid very little) he can not get a drivers liceance or ID card. Would you see a future with someone in this situation?
There is probability to get him legal but it is not easy, it takes years, and it is very expensive. The case must be taken care of by experienced immigration attorney only.

There are 2 different types of the so called "illegal aliens":

1. Those who entered US on non-immigrant visas and overstayed their visas. This group may be able to file for adjustment of status without leaving US.

2. Those who sneaked into US without inspection. This group cannot file adjustment of status while in US, they must return to their home country and have the US citizen sponsor filed proper visa on their behalves only.

If you are US citizen, you should be aware of consequences of getting married to an alien, illegal or not. As a sponsor, you are obligated to your alien spouse for 10 years if he works, or until he becomes naturalized. This simply means if he receives welfare, the government will come after you for that sum of $$$ and most importantly, this debt cannot be wiped out when you file for bankruptcy.

Do not be blind with love... use your brain. Do not rush as the chance that you will be "used" as stepping stone in order to obtain greencard is more than 90%.

Another major problem is when love flies out the windows, most couples end up hating each other... and follow with revenge, parental kidnapping charges when you find out that your spouse already fled the country with your baby, etc.

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