i've been seeing a marreid man for 7 months but he yday asked me if i'd been seeing an acquaintance of his. how dare he? i told him he's taking his juealousy to the utmost level of wrong. he swears he's not jealous. do they all seem to be possessive, controlling, & in denial of their jealousy?

wap

you say he is married? he has got a bit of a cheek to accuse you of cheating, it's all one sided here. Not a good idea to get involved with a married man.

Wildcat21

Oh my god! ANother one!!!

Your NOT dating!!!! You're not!!!

He is with his wife!!! Hello!!! and probably kids.

If anything you're in an affair - you're the mistress - if anything he is USING YOU for sex!!!! Hello???

In 7 months has he left his wife? no. Lies? yes. Empty promises? yes.

Move on - this is SOOOO unhealthy for you.

Plus - he cheated on his wife - he'll WILL cheat on you one day, but doubt he ever leaves his wife.

AND you're not dating.

rol

<<do they all seem to be possessive, controlling, & in denial of their jealousy?
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YES and ESPECIALLY if they think they are going to lose their little kick on the side!!!!!!

Wildcat21

Yes - his worried he will lose the only thing he wants from yoiu and that's sex.

This isn't dating. To be blunt - you're his ho - as is EVERY woman who dates a married man.

Don't talk one more word with this guy until the divorced papers are signed and has moved out.

Don't ou have any morals or selfesteem???

Tuscany

Wow he is jealous that his "other woman" is seeing someone else. What happens every time he leaves you and goes home to his WIFE? Not for nothing, but he has not right to be jealous, but you should not be with him either. He is married, he is WITH someone else. He has built a life with that person. I don't care if he says that he is getting a divorce...he won't. Why should he? He has his wife, and he has you on the side.

I am sorry but this makes me sad. I can never understand why any woman would want to be second best...and that is exactly what a mistress is...second best. Plain and simple.

ordinaryguy

RUN! Run for your life! Nothing good can come of this. It's already gone on 7 months too long. He's a selfish, lying, cheating, jealous jerk. Guys like this just get more perverse and more dangerous and more controlling and more jealous the longer it goes on. Please! Save yourself and everyone else who's affected any more heartache and beat it on down the line. You deserve so much better, and so does his wife, and especially his kids, if he has any.

sswoh

thanks er'one. unfortunatley he's a millionare & me being a single mother -- he played the money card. i've been trying to pullout for the past 2 months & i've been truly dating others on the side (but no sex with others.) but of course er'time i tried to leave he'd throw the money... but after yday i told him i felt like nothing but his whore- he gets sex i get paid - no more no less. i'm finished with him & this. i'll find the strength to move on. but the guy i met last week asked me on the firstdate if i'd sign a PRE-NUP!!! i just felt betta off with the married jerk... THX!!!

nwsflash

sswoh you really need to stay away from guys for a while, put yourself and your family 1st !! Get yourself 100% straight before you even think of starting to date any one....

As for the married guy, you need to kick his A@@ to the kerb and do FULL no CONTACT, I'm sure if you tell him you may visit his wife he will leave you well alone.

Put you and your kids first and get straight, then you will find the right person out there.

Wildcat21

Of course he throws money at you. You're his....

He manipulated you. His worried his 'goo thing' - the sex will end.

Stop all communications today!!!! None. Zero.

UNLESS he comes up with a SIGNED divorce paper, ring, he lives on his own.

And again - you were never dating.

How does a gu yask for a pre-nup on the first date? How classless. How about getting to know someone first.