I have always been the crazy type to try everything at least once I have been with girls before but nothing serious. I currently have two kids and have been in bad relationships nothing abusive but just not happy ones. Lately I have really been thinking about this girl I know or just about girls period. I just don't want to give my girls nothing but a perfect life and think that it would be wrong for me to be selfish and think only about me and not there future. One of my good friends told me that I need to be happy and if that makes me happy then let it be and as hard as I want to I really do not think that I can do it. What do you think....

talaniman

Do they live with you? If not and you are healthy your supposed to have a life and you can include whom ever you want.

bluerose

I think you will find that if you are happy, your children will be happy. If you are planning to introduce them to a new woman friend, take it slow and give the kids time to adjust before moving on to the next serious step. Be honest with them and reassure them that your love for them will never change.