Hi, Ive posted my situation on here and did many things trying to win my ex back but in the end doing nothing get you further than doing anything. Nothing beats disappearing. Im not saying when ur ex says i want a break, dont say nothing, Just dont get all upset in front of them and you dont have to act tough and just say fine then . I would be more likely to just say well if thats how you feel then thats what we should do. If they require a break you may ask why but really its not necessary but i would still just say why do u want a break they will obviously give some excuse or reason and then i would just say well ok then and you better go.

In the end if a person is asking for a break from you they are either not that into you or have someone else. If they are no longer feeling how they did about you in the past then you should not be trying to keep them like i did you should be letting them go on their own and they will come to a decision. You can say to them Ok have a break if thats what you need but understand i like you alot but i cant wait for people who are so unsure about what they want.

If the person does not want you, you cannot pursuade them to change there mind if they change it on there own accord then this may make your relationship stronger and better. If they go away and realise you are the one for them then thats a positive and you may be able to accept them back, but then again you may feel after they are gone that they were not really the one for you and you know longer want to be with them which happens in alot of cases. At first this is hard to believe and alot of people just want the ex back well chasing them will push them away and if you think about it properly doing nothing leaves it up to the dumper to contact you for they are the one who has let you go and they are the ones who have to get youback if they feel they still need you in there life. By you not being there they will then decide either way wether they require you int there life or if they will be better off without you.

On most cases if you leave them alone they will text and call at some stage maybe, not all the time. Dont let this worry you and give you false hope just let them be unless they actually call and say they want to catch up or work things out just ignore everything and move on. There is no use worrying bout someone who doesnt wish to be with you.

When you first start a relationship you dont really have any of your emotions on the line and therefore you have nothing to lose so if they are not into you what do you do you just say oh well and look for someone else. The problem here is once you have got involved with someone then you do have something invested with them and it makes it harder to just walk away which is the strongest thing to do although the most difficultest...

Ive learnt one main thing in the last 6 weeks if they dont want you just let it go. No argueing just walk away you cant control the decisions of others but my showing that your ok and letting hem be you may in a way be able to control their emotions, if they find you dont worry to much they may beleive you are the one for them. In any case if you do not chase you will start to heal quicker and at the same time as you are healing they will be wondering where yourve been and what you are up too.... and when they are ready to return if they are you will be ready to make a firm decision on weather you wish for them to re-enter ur relationship and you will also be wiser and know where you are heading and or want to be heading with this person and you will also have a little edge on them knowing they came for you GOD LUCK>>>