I am a 41 year old woman who has been separated from my husband for more than 2 years. A year or so ago I decided to just stay away from men all together till.....well till I'm ready to move on. Now out of the blue I have this terrible crush were I can't stop thinking of this guy. At first it was a great feeling to know I could even feel something for someone other than my ex but now it's beginning to interfere in my work. I swear the butterflies in my stomach are making me sick! I can't believe I'm saying this, but I hate this feeling! I am absolutely not, can’t get involved with this guy. Tell me how to make it stop!!

cerisa

You know people are never as hot as your imagination can spin it. Your imagination is a powerful thing. Imagine him complaining with a cold. that might do it. No? Okay, associate him with utility bills, when you see him think of a big fat electric bill, it gets bigger everytime you fantasize. Turn it off now. Hope that works.

stonewilder

Just so everyone knows I'm mostly over the crush now. I think between the long hours I was working, his sweet smile and just his flirty personality I just let my emotions over come me. Another one in the dust....I like it like that.

George_1950

"Another one in the dust....I like it like that." Is that from a song?