now this may seem daft, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, get on very well when we are together, i see him 5 nights a week, on the nights I dont see him he calls me but we hardly ever have anything to say, i struggle to get conversation out of him as he has never been one for telling me loads about his day or anything.

It frustrates me because i end up thinking on the nights we are apart that maybe we havent got such a good relationship but then again when i see him again its very confortable and we have a good time together.

hmm. maybe i am just worrying too much about nothing

Skell

I think you are over reacting. You see each other and lot and really there is not a whole lot he can tell you on the phone about the spare 2 days in his week that you dont see each other.

Some guys just dont like the phone either.. I know when i was with my ex of 7 years we would see each other most days. Phone conversations only really existed as a form of communication for arranging things and asking any questions we may have for the other whilst not together. Never anything serious or stuff about our days etc. Whats the point. We would see each other again in person within the day or so, so there was no need to talk on the phone.

Dont worry about it. You are over reacting. Just as long as you are happy with the communication levels when you two are together i think you have nothing to worry about.

Fr_Chuck

Yep many people just don't like talking on the phone,

Sodium

yeah the phones not for everyone maybe hed rather talk in person! =D

missbeach123

you see him five nights a week, your obviously there for any stories he might want to tell you. Don't push the phone thing or give him a hard time about not having anything to say, its natural sometimes. Instead of an akward convo, get off the phone.