ok was on hear last week cuz by bf broke up with me and i was a mess and i feal so much better over the last couple of days.

i started using chat rooms agen which helped me gain confdences talking to men agen anyway i have met some one on a chat room there aint anthing happening yet other than flirting and chatting hes really really nice

but hes 34 and im 21 im not bothed about age should i be

also is it bad that i am moving on so quick
cuz i feal like im being unfaful evan my ex broke up with me


i gess im just confussed

i just want to be happy

im sorry if i sound stupied i feal stupied

Jiser

Thats quite a large age difference. I have good friends who are in their 30's and I am 21. I am not sure I would want to be in a relationship with a 30 year old though. Try to keep busy and in time things will be easier - trust me on that. Its good that ur moving on to

hollyxxx

thanks for the advice

mconroy1399

Hi.. I am 30 years old and my boyfriend is 43.. age is just a number and shouldn't matter depending on whether or not what other people think. If I thought that way then I wouldn't be with my boyfriend. We get along great and have a lot of things in common. I find it easier to be with an older guy because they can be more mature and aren't in to the games that boys your age might be. But please because you haven't met him just take things slow. It also depends on the maturity of the people that are involved. Please don't feel stupid because we have all been there at one point or another. Also you aren't cheating on your boyfriend and you shouldn't feel bad because you aren't together anymore and it is his lost not yours. If you want to be happy then do the things that make you happy in this world. Go out with your friends, get to know new people and just have fun with life. This is the best advice that I can give you.

hollyxxx

thank u so much thats alot of help thank u

talaniman

Age doesn't matter, but go slow. The problem lies when we see something that has potential, we jump right in. Go slow and see if this is what you really want. Whats the hurray anyway???

missb

no theres nothing wrong with moving on but seeing someone from a chat room could be very dangerous.he could be typing any and everything to make it seem like you will like him but be careful.its really not safe to meet someone like that.try going out to the mall or hanging out wit your female friends or something, you should meet someone that way