my boyfriend of 5 months seems to be what i always wished my boyfriend would be, he i respectful towards me, he is always being nice to me and trying to make sure im happy, he always tells me how beautiful i am, and he was a virgin when he mt me..which is one reason i think hes like this. when i met him i really fancied him, and because he wouldnt even try to touch or kiss me and i felt like i had a chase going, but now i have all his attention and respect and love and i'm getin bored. Is there any way to cure this? will it get better with time? or is it always going to be like this. i feel like theres somehing wrong with me, i wish i had a horrible man who'd treat me badly, just to get away from being worshipped all the time.he's everything that women seem to be wishing for in their men, why am i UNHAPPY at having a nice boyfriend? am i a total biitch or something?

I have confronted him about this an tried to be really understanding and nice to him, but it hasnt worked, he just takes it personally. He does try to be less clingy but i can tel that he's deliberately refraining from kissing me etc, and he still watches me in admiration while im asleep or doing something so it really hasnt make things any better. I do love him and want to be with him, but right now im dreaming of being single or with someone who'l keep me on my toes. I dont want to end up splitting up with him and hurting him.

talaniman

He is who he is, and its not a shame, that there is not more here, for you both. I suspect he, and you, still have a lot of growing pains to go thru, so you may as well be honest with him, as right now, your not a very good match. I don't know if your both ready, willing, or able, to bridge your differences, and work together to resolve your issues, or not.