Cheating on the Internet?

Ambsizsolo1 · #1 Dec 30, 2007, 05:15 PM

I am just curious as to what an outsider looking in would have to say about this. I have found a few Dating/Rating picture accounts, of my boyfriends. Some of which he has chosen not to tell me about. Just to make sure it wasnt junk mail, I opened them and he had completed a profile and user name. He had a female on one of his accounts and kept saying that he didnt know her or talk to her. Well I had printed out the start of the conversation in which he had started , "because he was mad at me and bored"(was his excuse) so I then handed him the print out and said "if you dont talk to her what is this?"Is he capable of straying or is this something I should just blow off? Help Please
Anyone that knows about this please send me signs of what to look 4

George_1950 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:18 PM

How old is he?

Ambsizsolo1 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:20 PM

George_1950 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:29 PM

Have you asked him to be exclusive?

Ambsizsolo1 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:34 PM

Yes he is very aware of the exclusive part and always reassures me he wont stray.

George_1950 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:36 PM

"...so I then handed him the print out and said 'if you dont talk to her what is this?'" And, what did he say?

Ambsizsolo1 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:37 PM

nothing he just started gettin frustrated and i started yelling

George_1950 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:42 PM

Sounds like you caught him.

"Is he capable of straying or is this something I should just blow off?" Of course, he is capable of straying. You have 'female intuition' and probably a trust problem. Communication and honesty are keys for you both going forward.

Ambsizsolo1 · Dec 30, 2007, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

How long have you been dating, was there an agreement or statement not to date others, I know when I was dating after I lost my wife, I dated several ladies for a while before I decided to just date one.

Also when did he start these dating services, before you two got together, while he may or should have closed them, perhaps he was just talking and not doing anything more.

If for example you have been dating 3 months, it is differnet than if you had been dating 3 years.

I know that some were before me but he had a chance to unload all the rest of the sites and he didnt. Most have been acctive within 1-3 months and we've been together 6. I have been hurt alot of by men in my past and I know the sooner you get out the better for both. I want to make sure our relationship is safe before I end up sorry.



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