wife & i had been legally married for 9 years and have one son. we have been on separation 4 the past 3 years. she deserted the home saying i was abusive and cheating on her that which i admit. i have went back to her seekin reconciliation and she was refusing but i have changed. i hacked into her emails recently and discovered that she was having sex with a certain man who has since been married two months after we separated and that she is going out with a married man. i have since discovered she was receiving money from a pastor who once suspected to be having a relationship during our marriage days. this was being done without the knowledge of that pastor's wife. should i pursue reconciliation or forget about it? will my son not hurt me.

tickle

It is really nasty being desparate enough to hack into someone's e mails and if you can do that, then I dont think there is any reason to pursue a relationship with your wife. After all, you cheated, she cheated. Who is to say both of you wont do that again once getting back together.

The two of you together is not a good environment for your son.