I recently found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me again and not only that he gave me two stds on top of that. How do you get over something like this or how do you get over being scared to move on?

Speaklife

The real question is what do you want to do? get over it with him or with out him? First you have to know what you want to do before moving forward.

As any good friend would say - eventhought I don't know you- You deserve better than that and there are plenty of guys out there who will not cheat. In a situation like this moving on can be the best thing that ever happened to you. But before I continue on you need to figure out what you want, and then go after it.

Oh and about being scared, the only thing that counter acts fear is action, I garuntee when you make that first step things will become easier.

I hope this helps - you do deserve better than that.

lonelily

aw hun i feel for ya i really do...
first of all get treated for the std's
'if something happens once it can never happen again but if something happens twice then its sure to happen a third time'... a random quote i heard ages ago an stick to...
as tough as it is to move on you just have to realise your better than being cheated on,noone deserves that...

Cher13

once is bad enough never mind doing it twice (that you know of) there are good guys out there, and the one you got aint one of them.... you should really think about what you want out of your relationship and in a boyfriend, if the guy your with right now doesnt have it, he never will....i say move on you deserve sooooo much better