I e-mailed this guy without telling him who I was. Than I called hime and kept hanging
up becuase I was nervous. This only happened 4 or 5 days. When he found it it was me
he told me If I Had called and told him who I was he would have spoken to me. I e-mailed
him that I was sorry. I want to call him and tell him I'm sorry on the phone to. How
can I convince this guy to give me another chance... Thank you

4answers

Well firstly he cant give you a second chance, there is no chance to give. I mean you have not based on what you said connected yet.

It would seem that you are letting your emotions get the better of you, it happens to us all but it makes you do things that once done you regret. Instead of doing things in a way you would like to do. If you continue, then you will spend more time apologising than doing what you want/need to do and that is get to know him.

Tip: When your emotions are running really high and you feel overwhelmed....STEP BACK, emotionaly take a step back, dont act on them. When your emotions are not as high then act on them, dont overthink things.

You like a guy and want to get to know him. Right ! Role reversal, imagine somebody liking you and wanting to get to know you, what would work...There is your answer.

Good luck.

nicespringgirl

TO be honest with you at this moment the more u try to convince him, the worse it will turn.
Just let it go, and I truly don't think u need to apologize for what u have done.

s_cianci

Just go ahead and call him. He's probably willing enough to give you another chance. Just don't keep on being so shy and hanging up.

nbarry

At least you were honest enough to admit it was you. But you must realize that he probably may think that , that was an immature thing to do. You apologized to him already and if he wants to give it a try with you then you must believe that in time he will let you know. But calling him to apologize AGAIN, is a little bit too much. He might think your a.)stalker b.)needy or c.)annoying
good luck