What i think is weird is that this all started over a text message. it was a silly forward message that my bestfriends boyfriend had sent me. after that message he told me he liked me and that he has for a really long time. the problem is that his girlfriend is my best friend and my boyfriend is his bestfriend. they have a baby together also. well one day when he was out my best friend invited me over to her house.. they both live together. so i went over and i was texting her boyfriend while i was there. he told me he wanted to kiss me and he asked if he could whenever his girlfriend left the room.. i said sure.. when he got home my best friend was in the restroom so she told me to answer the door. and well... we kissed.. i know its so bad but it felt so right. after that time we keep text messaging and we have done things after that.. i dont know what to do because he is about to get married with her.. i care about my best friend alot and i love my boyfriend to death but this guy just completes everything for me. he tells me loves me and wishes his gf was more like me.. what should i do? i dont want to hurt my friend or my boyfriend but yet i cant stop liking him and he feels the same.. someone please help..




ok i understand everything that everyone is telling me... im going to stop... but i dont understand why everyone is just blaming this on me. im not the only one involved in this situation. i didnt start anything.. he did.. i know this is all wrong.. i know he has a baby... i know she is my best friend... but this is not just my fault.. and yes they are not really old enough to get married.. all three of us are only 18. the baby is 1 1/2 years old and i really dont understand how this is just "my fault" but i really do know that what i am doing is wrong. im going to stop. i have to stop. this is hurting me as much as it should be hurting him and as much as it would hurt her. she trusts him and she trusts me and even though ive already done enough to hurt her... i will stop.. no more contact with him...

rodandy12

The toughest question here is "Who to feel the most sorry for?"

The boyfriend isn't around most of the time, so he doesn't have a clue. This is going to hit him completely blind...a bolt from the blue.

The fiancee is the leading candidate. She has a kid to deal with and she is about to marry a thrill seeker who would probably be boffing anyone available any time she is out of earshot. That marriage has great potential. I know a guy like Romeo...a friend actually. He began cheating on his first wife while they were engaged and, according to one of his stories, managed to snag some extra stuff while on honeymoon. She was not pregnant when they were married. He continued doing that sort of thing through maybe a hundred or so women until she finally threw him out after they had been married for almost 20 years. They had two kids. Hearing him tell stories was/is a lot like watching a car wreck. The wife's life may not be THE most miserable life one can live, but it has to be close.

The next candidate is the coming child. What is life going to be like for him/her with a father that he/she might catch in the act with Susy280 in a couple of years? Won't that be pretty.

Susy is a candidate. She is so in need of attention and so lacking in judgment that she is willing to scre* her best friend's fiancee almost with her in the next room...and she is asking us if it is OK!

Please! These posts crack me up. Are we sure they are real?

talaniman

I don't know how real some of these posts are but they got "general hospital" and the "edge of night" beat.

Homegirl 50

You got that right. Prime-Time Soap Opera

Romefalls19

I think it's time someone jumps in and says it...



JER-RY JER-RY JER-RY!!!

susy280

ok i havent talked to him in 3 days... i dont understand still why you guys are just blaming all this on me. what about the other blog where the lady was messing with a married man and he has two kids and she knows the wife? you guys arent as harsh to her as you guys are to me. i know what i am doing is wrong. what me and him are doing is wrong. im not asking you guys if its ok i know its not i just need help getting over him...

Homegirl 50

He did not do anything you did not let him do, and this girl is your best friend. You could have stopped this from the first text mess and you chose not to. No, you are not the only one to blame, this guy is pure scum, but your friendship with this girl should have prevented you from messing with him.
You want to get over him? Tell him to leave you alone and then you stay out of both of their lives.

Altenweg

You shouldn't need help getting over him, you should never have gotten in to him in the first place, you had no right to. That's the problem. You are screwing around with your supposedly best friends soon to be husband, while she's in the other room. I don't only blame you, get him to post and I'll give him a piece of my mind as well. Unfortunately you get to take all the flack because you're here, he isn't.

Just stop doing this, it's wrong, I don't think I can say that enough.

COOKIE MONSTER

i agree with altenwegs last comment [cant agree in comment box agreed with you to many times lol] but you get him on hear hun im really sure ALOT of people have LOTS to say to him. we no its not just your fault but you had the ball in your court when he texed you,you either ignore him or you get in to this mess youve gotten in to its your own fault

[[[[[you need to give your head awobble and get back to reality and stay the hell away from your so called best friend/baby and her cheating botfriend]]]]]

friend4u178

I too would like to see him on here........................but you know what , there's no chance.
Anyone who does what he has done , wouldn't have the balls.

Susy , I'd like you to show him this.

COOKIE MONSTER

GREAT IDEA!!!! friends4u178
show him all this,dout she will