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What i think is weird is that this all started over a text message. it was a silly forward message that my bestfriends boyfriend had sent me. after that message he told me he liked me and that he has for a really long time. the problem is that his girlfriend is my best friend and my boyfriend is his bestfriend. they have a baby together also. well one day when he was out my best friend invited me over to her house.. they both live together. so i went over and i was texting her boyfriend while i was there. he told me he wanted to kiss me and he asked if he could whenever his girlfriend left the room.. i said sure.. when he got home my best friend was in the restroom so she told me to answer the door. and well... we kissed.. i know its so bad but it felt so right. after that time we keep text messaging and we have done things after that.. i dont know what to do because he is about to get married with her.. i care about my best friend alot and i love my boyfriend to death but this guy just completes everything for me. he tells me loves me and wishes his gf was more like me.. what should i do? i dont want to hurt my friend or my boyfriend but yet i cant stop liking him and he feels the same.. someone please help..
ok i understand everything that everyone is telling me... im going to stop... but i dont understand why everyone is just blaming this on me. im not the only one involved in this situation. i didnt start anything.. he did.. i know this is all wrong.. i know he has a baby... i know she is my best friend... but this is not just my fault.. and yes they are not really old enough to get married.. all three of us are only 18. the baby is 1 1/2 years old and i really dont understand how this is just "my fault" but i really do know that what i am doing is wrong. im going to stop. i have to stop. this is hurting me as much as it should be hurting him and as much as it would hurt her. she trusts him and she trusts me and even though ive already done enough to hurt her... i will stop.. no more contact with him...
Yeah switch boyfriends and then he can find somebody else to cheat with.
That is the way it usually works.
Well not the switching bf's ---but sometimes it happens
but I'd guess you would lose the two friends in the meantime
What's this world coming to, is this what we have to look forward to, this is the future generation? Honestly, were can I find a cheap cabin in the woods?
they dont even teach the kids good sex ed anymore i cant even tell you how many kids [15 year olds] ive told to go to their doctors on this site because they think that they are pregnant its rediclous
You are such a liar, and he is a lying cheat. If you were concerned for others, you wouldn't be doing, what your doing. If you weren't doing, what your doing you, would be telling your friend, what a lying cheat he is. But have heart, when they get married, you can STILL cheat with him, and be complete. And still babysit.
Girl, you and this guy are a mess. He does not need to get married and I feel bad for your girl friend. She is about to marry one cheater and has another one for a friend.
Your selfishness has messed with your friend, this baby and your boyfriend. What you really need to do is come clean. Let her know what kind of creep she is about to marry and what kind of person she trusted as a friend. Best friends don't do this to each other.
All of you guys are immature. Too immature for relationships let alone marriage and there is a baby in the midst of this mess.
Pitiful!
you are plane and simply humpy.
how could u do that to your bestfriend.
and they have a child.
and ye decided to start while she was in the toilet.
thats very nice of ye.
there are two of ye in it but to me he is just using u to have one last fling before he gets married.... he obviously has no respect for his girlfriend and to me u have none for your boyfriend.... all u had to do was say no when he made advances to you.... just imagine how u would feel if the roles were reversed and u had set up home with ur bf and ur friend was seeing him behind ur back......
Hon, she is not your best friend. You may be hers, but she is not yours. No honest person would do this to their best friend... And you know what? Once this all gets out (because it WILL get out) you will realize what you've lost. Hopefully, you'll have learned your lesson and tried to repair what you could in your relationships - with your boyfriend, your "best friend," and her boyfriend.
No, its not normal and no, its not alright... you must stop the madness. You're setting yourself up for heartbreak, pain, and the loss of the "most special people in your life."
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