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What i think is weird is that this all started over a text message. it was a silly forward message that my bestfriends boyfriend had sent me. after that message he told me he liked me and that he has for a really long time. the problem is that his girlfriend is my best friend and my boyfriend is his bestfriend. they have a baby together also. well one day when he was out my best friend invited me over to her house.. they both live together. so i went over and i was texting her boyfriend while i was there. he told me he wanted to kiss me and he asked if he could whenever his girlfriend left the room.. i said sure.. when he got home my best friend was in the restroom so she told me to answer the door. and well... we kissed.. i know its so bad but it felt so right. after that time we keep text messaging and we have done things after that.. i dont know what to do because he is about to get married with her.. i care about my best friend alot and i love my boyfriend to death but this guy just completes everything for me. he tells me loves me and wishes his gf was more like me.. what should i do? i dont want to hurt my friend or my boyfriend but yet i cant stop liking him and he feels the same.. someone please help..
ok i understand everything that everyone is telling me... im going to stop... but i dont understand why everyone is just blaming this on me. im not the only one involved in this situation. i didnt start anything.. he did.. i know this is all wrong.. i know he has a baby... i know she is my best friend... but this is not just my fault.. and yes they are not really old enough to get married.. all three of us are only 18. the baby is 1 1/2 years old and i really dont understand how this is just "my fault" but i really do know that what i am doing is wrong. im going to stop. i have to stop. this is hurting me as much as it should be hurting him and as much as it would hurt her. she trusts him and she trusts me and even though ive already done enough to hurt her... i will stop.. no more contact with him...
BUT YOU CAN STOP and tell him it is just wrong and you do not want to lose your best friend or your boyfriend.
everytime he tries to talk with you picture your best friend walking in the room and how it would devastate her.
Think of how hurt you would ''feel'' if you caught your boyfriend with another girl.
how old are you 10????
you should of realised this was wrong when you got the tex and just ignored it,you are destroying that babys life if she finds out it will be OVER between them and you will be AHOME WRECKER!!!
i think that is what im gonna have to do.. i have to.. it really does hurt me when im around her telling her that he loves her and he would never do anything to hurt her... but deep inside i know the truth.. we took things to far.. much farther than they should have gone... he was the one that came onto me though... but i know this has to stop.. i dont want to hurt her anymore...
DO YOU NOT NO THE WORDS ''NO YOU HAVE AGIRLFRIEND AND ABABY'''????
It takes two to make a relationship work and 3 to break it up. You are tearing a family apart, do you realize that? these two have a baby together. Should they get married, probably not, they don't seem very mature, either do you. He may have started this but you finished it when you let him continue, when you let him kiss you.
You say that you care about your friend and your boyfriend, Dear, I think the only one you care about is yourself. Search deep inside and realize that this is wrong, put a stop to it NOW! If not, then you deserve what you get.
Also, seriously, your friend told her future husband he could sleep with and fool around with anyone he wants to before they get married? Are they actually old enough to get married? I mean, really, are you guys 11, because you all are acting like it.
I agree with everyone else, it's time for a reality check, and time to grow up!
What i think is weird is that this all started over a text message. it was a silly forward message that my bestfriends boyfriend had sent me. after that message he told me he liked me and that he has for a really long time. the problem is that his girlfriend is my best friend and my boyfriend is his bestfriend. they have a baby together also. well one day when he was out my best friend invited me over to her house.. they both live together. so i went over and i was texting her boyfriend while i was there. he told me he wanted to kiss me and he asked if he could whenever his girlfriend left the room.. i said sure.. when he got home my best friend was in the restroom so she told me to answer the door. and well... we kissed.. i know its so bad but it felt so right. after that time we keep text messaging and we have done things after that.. i dont know what to do because he is about to get married with her.. i care about my best friend alot and i love my boyfriend to death but this guy just completes everything for me. he tells me loves me and wishes his gf was more like me.. what should i do? i dont want to hurt my friend or my boyfriend but yet i cant stop liking him and he feels the same.. someone please help..
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