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    cutegal Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 2, 2003, 04:15 PM
    Changed boyfriend
    Well, I am 19 years old and I just started dating my good friend of two years who is 22. He lives right next door to me and the problem is that before we started going out, only he had feelings for me and I just liked him as a friend. And now since we started going out he has changed completely. In the sense, before he would act more like my boyfriend then he does now. We fight a lot and he always tell me that he finds me really annoying. I really like him but I don't know what to do. Am I just overreacting and no moatter what I say he calls me psycho. He never compliments me or anything... before he would try hard to flirt with me and stuff now. He doesn't even make out with me that often. We sleep in the same bed every night and he never tries to kiss me and stuff. Its been like 5 days and he doesn't try. Am I just paranoid or is something the matter?
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    Apr 4, 2003, 01:51 AM
    changed boyfriend
    :Typical syndrome
    The thrill of the chase... wanting something that doesn't want you. Then when that person starts showing they care... poof
    Get out now... go back to being just neighbors and good friends. If he treats you like this now... it will only get worse with time. 8)
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    May 14, 2003, 11:36 PM
    changed boyfriend
    He's got you so now your not a new toy, communicate with him and ask him hey what's up with you and how you act around me and treat me, maybe he doesn't realize that he's doing it and make it change, he's feeling secure and that is good, but he shouldn't take the trill of the relationship out.Good luck and God bless


    Chaz :)
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    May 15, 2003, 08:29 AM
    changed boyfriend
    If he disrespects you now, he will disrespect you 10 years from now- BECAUSE THAT IS WHO HE IS - DUP HIM and move on. My advice is to wait to have sex at least until you are with the guy you know you want to spend your life with and better yet as the ultimate gift to give your husband on your wedding night.

    Best wishes,
    Dwalex
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    Oct 18, 2008, 03:28 PM

    Let him know how you feel, and how you see how he is different now. If he seems not to care, or if he continues to act the same way, than I have to agree with everyone else, dump him asap. Don't waste your time trying to figure things out, or trying to change him if he doesn't truly cooperate.
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