I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years- on and off. And the reason for each break up is he's great for 4-6 months and all of a sudden wants to go out drinking to the bars, hang out at colleges with his friends and drink all the time. There was nights when he never called me while he was out. And he was mean and would fight with me and basically it would end because he seemed to now care and would continue on his way to drinking and not having me in his life. before i met him i saw how he was drunk all the time, doing cocaine, sleeping around with some slutty girls and just so messed up. I didnt take him seriously until one day we just hit it off and things were perfect. I have always not trusted him because of things that have happened..i was always scared he was going to go back to bar hopping ignore my calls and treat me like . We broke up for a while and he seemed to have done a 360 and everyone noticed how nice and sweet he was being
then one night he was drinking and i saw him all over my friends looking at the sexually and touching them and saying how attractive they were. I freaked out and started yelling at him in front of everyone. he looked at me with this angry face and was like what the is your problem and put it on me when i was the one who saw what he was going. he just kept on drinking. i even saw him puke and then continue again after that. eventually he just passed out on a random chair after drinking all day long. after the incident i could never trust him and i always worried about how he was when he wasnt with me. There were times were he would just leave me, get in a stupid fight with me and it was always my fault. Sometimes even to go blow lines of coke. I told him to stop that and he did but drinking has been impossible
he drinks 4-7 beers mon-friday after work and on the weekends he could drink all day and night and thats when i see the ugliest side of him. I recently ended it because i had no respect or trust for him and i was tired of being the victim. Last weekend i refused to let him drive he started getting mad at me and i was babysitting him all night at my house and my dad was like mike you shouldnt drive and he was like ya i know. he started fighting with me and threatening to leave and go to the bar over and over again and wouldnt listen to me. that night ended badly he just started treating me like and told me he did not want to be with me that night so he left after he screamed at me. He becomes this horrible person when he drinks. Of course he drove his new truck home hammered called me the next day and did not remember what we fought about. he knew something happened between us but did not remember me breaking the diamond necklace of my neck or what we were fighting about. Its very sad and he didnt want to see me the next day instead of fixing things he was drinking with his buddies...i was so upset and at that point i said its over but it's very hard to deal with this. I can never change him or never trust him. He's such a wonderful person but his drinking makes him become so unattractive and mean...anyone have any advice?!i am soo sad and feel so awful
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