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Aug 16, 2007, 02:24 PM
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| | | ever heard of anyone going from lovers, to friends, back to lovers?
Has anyone ever heard of two people breaking up, actually bieng just friends for a while, and then actually getting back together?
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:40 PM
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#2
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| Yes. Your lover should be a friend; if not, it's just lust.
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:44 PM
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#3
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| it does happen, u have to question wh u sp;lit up then work on those areas not just get bk together or you will end up splitin up again. communication is supposed to be easy its not its the hardest thig in the world. review why u split talk about it if u get bk together and work on those areas. be honest and open ALWAYS. | |
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:47 PM
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| It's best to never go back to an ex once they dump you. The chances of a reconciliation working out long term is about 3%. Pretty pathetic odds. | |
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:50 PM
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| she keeps trying and trying to be my "friend" i keep skrewing it up because im still in love with her, I want her back so badly i cant see straight! I try to be JUST A FRIEND. We've been going in circles for 6 months now...she keeps giving me chances to be her friend, it feels IMPOSSIBLE! | |
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:52 PM
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| I dumped her...three times in a row...I wanted her to change a little...instead she said she wanted space...now all she wants is "friendship" | |
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted by marcus83 I dumped her...three times in a row...I wanted her to change a little...instead she said she wanted space...now all she wants is "friendship" | Well if you dumped her then don't expect her to forgive you for breaking her heart. I hope she never considers taking you back. You made the decision to end things and now you must suffer the consequences. If I were talking to her I would tell her to have no contact with you. | |
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:56 PM
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| Come on now, marcus83, you can be a friend; you just got to try a different approach. Resist urges to get in her pants, to kiss her or do things that lovers do. Maybe pretend like she's that 'best buddy' you had early in your childhood. If she sees that you see her as a friend, she may slowly come around...
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:57 PM
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#9
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| I "dumped" her for 3 hours, then called her and apologized...the third time, she said she wanted space & took it! so I actually sometimes think she really did the dumping..your right, looking at from that perspective..I know I dont deserve another chance, it sucks! | |
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Aug 16, 2007, 02:58 PM
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#10
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| oh yeah,..forgot to tell you all, It was a long distance relationship, always has been, Shes in med school in Virginia, Im in florida....all I have is a phone to get the love of my life back... | |
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