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hey its me again and i need to know what to do my ex wants me back now that he know he has a kid and as you saw iv waited on him for 1.5yrs so do i take him back his babys momma goes to school with me and she hates me because my ex wants me back i feel like im dieing in side be cause i know i love him but i dont think i can dell with the stuff that is going to between him and his babys momma when she asked him if he loved her he told he no he loved me and that she was going to be a quick lay but she is 14 and hes 20 im 17 this is not his first kid either i get along with his first babys momma we are friends when we meat i told her that i thought he needed to be there for his son he helped make the baby then he needs to help raise the the kid and that made it a little better we steel talk and stuff but his new babys momma hates me and i dont know if i should take him back so can someone help me
He dumped you 1.5 years ago to go screw other woman. He will continue to do the same.
Don’t keep pining over him.
He has 1 child with another woman and now he is having another child with ANOTHER woman.
Do you want to get up in his destructive lifestyle?
You are only 17!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Forget him, go to college/university, make a life for yourself, and get involved with someone who wants to be with you for you, not because it will suit his personal needs of the time.
As hard as it is to let someone go that you love, you have to do it.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Do you really want to be with someone, who obviously, since he has 2 children with 2 different women, doesn't truly love you 100%?
It will be hard, since he's been a part of your life for so long now, but don't take him back. There are so many great guys out there who's lives don't have a lot of "drama". You don't need that.
Move on and find someone who will give you all his time, attention and love.
How much more proof do you need to convince you that being with this guy is just plain stupid.Can't you see what misery he's caused you and everyone else's lives he has touched? What else do you need to convince you to run from him and get a life? Are you blind ,stupid or do you need professional help?
Kandy You need to tell this dude to back of and stop contact with him, before you end up right back where you where before....Yeah its hard but do you really want to be played. I have to go with all the other people that have posted on this thread.
thanks for helping me with that but i dont think i can get anyone else i love this guy i mean we have been messing around forr the 1.5yrs that we were not together so hes all i know to love because hes ben in my life for 4.5 yrs and noone else will date me so now what do i do
Do you really want to settle with him just because he is "there" and he wants to date you??
If no one else wants to date you, then you remain single! It isn't all that bad really! I agree with everyone else that this guy is bad news..... Please don't fall in the trap of getting back together with him. If you do, you will also close out chances of meeting a guy that is good for...
Instead of worrying who's going to date you you need to get thru school and get a job to support yourself and your baby! I suspect that all his babies mama's are being supported by everyone but him so forget this loser and take care of yourself and your child.Grow up and stop thinking of just yourself and learn to do for yourself. If you get back with him you'll be a loser just like he is. Is that what you want?
Hi, kandy,
Can you write sentences? putting a period between your sentences? If you can, it would make it a whole lot easier to read your questions and comments!
You are 17 and have a baby. You are not alone, many young woman are the same as you. Have you looked in your local phone book for support groups for unwed mothers? Why not attend a meeting and learn a lot more about yourself and others who are experiencing the same things.
This man you love is only using you, and I know it's hard to get over someone you love.....been there....done that.
I have been married 20 years to a wonderful woman...second marriage. There is someone out there for you, who will respect you, care for you, and love you.
Try moving on with your life. When you meet a man, SMILE, and ask him things about himself; talk about him. You can make new friends fast by listening to others, they they in turn, will start asking some things about you.
I do wish you the best of luck, and remember, only you can change your life; he isn't going to do it for you.
thank all of you all. You helped make it easer to tell him bye, and that he cant just walk in my life again.Oh just so everyone knows i don't have a kid thank every one again. oh What can i do now?he will not leave me alone. he'll ways texts me,telling me how much he loves me.and it's so hard to not text him back,because o do love him too.
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