me and my boyfriend were dating for just about 2 years when we broke up.
painful experience, tears, screaming, anger, depression, etc. the thing that hurt me the most was that he told his friends that one of the reasons he left me was cuz i wouldnt have sex [18 and a virgin and im pretty damn proud of it.] so he moved on quickly and got with a girl who was "easier" to "talk" to about sex. they had sex - and they were only dating for about two months. they broke up. he calls me up one night. and ever since then he's been trying to make it work for us again...

idk about you people, but i think virginity is a very special thing that you only give to ONE person that you know you'll always love- regardless where life takes you- a special gift- etc.

and if he lost it so quickly to someone he didnt love, what does he have to prove to me that he loves me, when i can offer him that? i feel cheated out of it you know? it sucks knowing that if we ever got back together sex will come up eventually again[we were sexually active, just not all the way] and i know that he cant give me something that means so much to me.

i just might be a psycho for making it such a big deal, but it just makes my skin crawl knowing that he did that to another girl that he didnt even love, when we were together he said he would wait forever until i was ready. i get so very angry at him.

i just dont know what to do, becuz this is stopping me from being with him again. it proves my theory of him dumping me for sex, and that he really didnt care about what i had to say. i just dont think i can be with him after this anymore even tho its the only thing i want most in the world is to be happy with him

people, please take this seriously, i've spent two years of my life with this man, and i love him so very much, and i plan to go to the marines this summer, and i need to know if he's worth coming back home to when i graduate...or if i can go straight overseas and forget all about it..and him..

thanks for reading.

talaniman

You being a virgin has very little to do with his behavior, and if a guy breaks up because of no sex, then he didn't care about you in the first place. He went and got what he wanted, and now he's back? He doesn't deserve the time of day so don't look back, and focus on your life, and career with the marines. Good Luck!

ItzZee

I'm a virgin and I'm 19 turning 20 this year and I would NEVER give it up to anyone who would just up and leave because he's bored. 2 years doesn't seem like a long time to me, especially if you're doing other things.

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

Gee Talaniman, was the greenie you gave me suppose to be sarcastic?

I'm known for stating the obvious!