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Old Dec 29, 2007, 03:36 AM
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i cant forgive my boyfriend

my boyfriend cheated on me with a young girl but i cant forgive him and i cant get over it please help

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Old Dec 29, 2007, 04:47 AM   #2  
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If he had to cheat, then he's a bonafide scumbag. Drop him like a bad habit and question yourself no more. You will be his greatest loss; and all for his inability to control his genitals.

I'm proud to say that I have never cheated on any girl that I have been with--even with knowing the relationship was going south and having plenty of opportunity.

You deserve better--go and get it, kelly.

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dump him!

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Are you still together? How old are you? It takes time to forgive and have trust, if he is worth it. Getting over it is hard, but like trust it will take a long time, again, if he is worth it. How long have you known, and what was his story? A brief history would be appreciated.
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Old Dec 29, 2007, 09:15 AM   #5  
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my boyfriend cheated on me with a young girl but i cant forgive him and i cant get over it please help
Luckey for you ! You don't have to forgive him. If he dose it now he will do it after marriage. The only exception is if he become born again in The LORD JESUS CHRIST. Other than that, you should send him packing.
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Well you've got some decisions to make. I can't tell you what to do. But if I were in your shoes I'd say "adios" and move on.
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Of course you can't forgive him, who likes to be cheated on?????
That is because so many people out there giving cheaters a second chance, causing them to cheat again and again.
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Boy he better be worth it to carry that around for years.

Although i don't agree with the once a cheater alwaysa cheater mentality.
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Old Dec 29, 2007, 10:48 AM   #9  
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FORGIVE HIM?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

uh.....NO.


Dump him.

You need to focus on getting over him - not forgiving him.
I can guarantee you will not be the last girl he ever sleeps with.

Look at the relationship guide below (link). Can you answer enough yes to tolerate being cheated on?
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Old Dec 29, 2007, 11:25 AM   #10  
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Originally Posted by XenoSapien
If he had to cheat, then he's a bonafide scumbag. Drop him like a bad habit and question yourself no more. You will be his greatest loss; and all for his inability to control his genitals.

I'm proud to say that I have never cheated on any girl that I have been with--even with knowing the relationship was going south and having plenty of opportunity.

You deserve better--go and get it, kelly.

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i wish it was that simple to leave him but its not i love him so much i thought he would never cheat on me .i just cant get over it
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