Hey guys, I don't want to make this super long because I know you wont read it. So i'll cut straight to the chase. I'll list them as Girl A and Girl B to keep their identity private.

There is two girls I like. Girl A I met a few weeks ago, i kind of helped her out of a bad relationship and apparently she fell for me during that time. I was just trying to be a friend but it seems she thinks its developed into more than that during that time. I kind of like her too but its only been a few weeks so I can't exactly say I'm head over heels for her yet.

The other girl. Girl B. Is my ex from about 6 months ago. We broke up because we had poor communication between each other and we were drifting apart. So i made it easier on both of us and just ended the relationship early. I hadn't talked to her in 6 months but all of a sudden she comes back. Texts me and calls me and we start talking again.

Just a few days after girl A telling me she wanted to get into a relationship. Girl B tells me she wants to get back into a relationship with me. Now I've got problems on my plate and i can't decide. I told them both lets just be friends because, to be honest I felt un attatched to both of them and didn't want to hurt anyone. Telling them if we just were friends seemed to make it worse. So i'm back where i started basically.

I'll list some pros and cons of each girl. I'm 18 btw.


Girl A:
I've known her for a couple of weeks
Shes 18
no kids
sweet,kind and caring and seems really genuine. I've told her if i was ugly if she would still like me. She said it was all about personality which she is attracted to mine. So looks is just a bonus
never been engaged or anything

Girl B:
Ex from about 6 months ago(we only lasted like a month anyway)
shes 22
has a kid
She says she really cares for me but i'm not sold on that. She wants me to let her love me again and all that jazz.
used to be a stripper(lol i know)
has been engaged before and almost married
Shes told me straight up. If i was ugly or a fence post. She wouldnt be going out with me. She doesn't want to be embarresed with someone in public.. all my friends tell me this girl is a beeyotch. She calls herself one too sometimes. I already know but i still cant just ignore her for some reason. Maybe im thinking about like.. what if?

I know i should probably pick girl A because girl B has a kid. I'd have to change my life around and help be a dad for a kid thats not even mine but its not even that big a deal to me really. I know I could be a good father figure to him. Maybe im too young to get into the mess with the girl that is 22 though. She does seem like shes experienced a lot more stuff than I have. Like being engaged, and some other stuff that isnt that great.. to bring home to mamma.

slapshot_oi

Is this a joke? Listing the "pros and cons of each". You're not picking numbers for f***in Keno, these are women.

You can't make a decision for yourself, so don't bother dating either one.

kitty23100

well...from a girl that has been played on because of the two girl system,,,,,,neither girl. you should never have a pro con list an anyone...its either one or the other... kids no kids good lokking or not...n ice or not...look you like what you like, if your young ( i didint see your age) just shop around more. likle i said its either one or the other, if your not sure its because not one really trully lights up your candle. if you cant choose just please dont pick them both. i hope i helped. if not sorry

NeedKarma

I've always only dated one girl at a time. I never understood how it can be done otherwise.

none12345

Girl A is a rebound. Not a good sign. Girl B is an ex, even worse of a red flag. Broke up with you once and will do it again. If you cant pick, than you shouldnt be with anyone.