| She is pregnant and relationship on rocks a long time
My girlfriend is pregnant I am sure it is mine. However she has admitted to going out with someone else quite recently and I am pretty sure her relationship with the other man did not get to the sex stage. I do not make much money. I am very educated, she makes good money. We have talked about future plans to marry and continue our educations. We agreed both we would work on continuing our schooling before we have children. We are both responsible for this pregnancy but we both know its not the time, financially absolutely not which will definitely reduce us to federal aid programs and medicaid to take care of a child. With our arguments this past year we both make for unreliable parents. She knows and acknowledges the bad timing. She has never discussed things she is about to do when it affects both of us. We love each other but manipulation and cultural differences have been problems in our relationship. We both are not in the right frame of mind to be parents. i understand she as a woman has different outlook on pregnancy but I see financialy and psychologicaly she isn't exactly ready for a child. With our relationship barely surviving this past year we agreed to heal and take time out, and then her pregnancy. She is 6 week and we discussed abortion as an option. I would love to be a father I accept responsibility. But with the state of our relationship we both know we did not show to each other that we are wordy to be parents. We can't live together but seems we care for each othe. I like to take time and think and discuss when decisions effect both of us. When she makes decision she tries to manipulate me into agreeing and have never seen her think something out long enough to make sure the decision is right for both of us. that scares me for the future decisions she would make that would affect both of us as partners and spouses. help and advice please.Difficuilt so difficult to the point that want to cry. Advice please please.
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