my boyfriend found me on a bed with his friend beside me i explained his friend pushed me,which he did, and how i told him i wasnt interested, however my boyfriend after almost a week of me trying to get him back keeps telling me he wont take me back.....i need him and love him please help i dont know what else to do...please please help me! if you wana find out more just ask i'll let you know i just need advice!

Jesushelper76

My advice is to back off. You begging and acting desperate to want him back, guess what it is doing is pushing him farther away. No one likes the acts of desperate person.

My advice is does not matter how bad you want him back, he decided he does not want you back and that was his decision. Now you need to except it is over and move on.

mel105

It seems that you are going to go through life begging him to trust you. Let him be. You are better off without him.

ladyprincess

let hin go

talaniman

Do you really want a guy who wont listen to you and has hissy fits??

floor

I do understand ok nothing happened and it is very unfair that he does not believe you however as already said the one sure way not to get him back is to continue hassling him, just let him be. He may realise what an idiot he is been. Ask yourself do you really want to be with a guy who does not trust you because i wouldn't and that is not love anyway.

AW805

If nothing happened -- Nothing happened. You've already explained it to him. Let it go and give him some time to deal with it. If he doesn't come around ... he really wasn't worth it anyway.

Stunning07

YES WHAT else could you do just back off give him his space and time to think, he might relise you were tellin the truth after all

lmnotok

some ones have the strong belief in what they see more than what they hear, so, cant blame on him 100%, just leave him time to figure it out. I bet he might ask his friend about what happened.

BUT i have a question for you::: HOw can that scene ( i mean the scene you with a guy) can happen??? sorry for being honest, but if it was me, i would fight back or do somthing so that if other ppl see it then they could easily understand that that bastard pushed me. I would not let myself lay down quietly. You know, he pushed you, if you werent interested then you could stand up and be strong. If i was your boyfriend i would question you why didnt you fight back and wondering about it.

Anyway, let him figure it out!

saleha

thanks for everyones advice and i have backed off and he has started contacting me nearly everyday. I know it doesnt sound too great but i was so so drunk i could barely stand myself. i also found out that the fella who did this spoke to my dad about it all and told him to make sure that me and my now ex boyfriend knew it was his fault and he took advantage of me while my fella wasnt there. i've still got hope of us being together but not much, but i'll keep trying for a while yet!!